People are so judgmental
@hillhjill (23717)
United States
October 19, 2017 2:31pm CST
Today we are back at the heart doctor to see what they want to do with my husband's heart..and we are sitting in the waiting room and there are these two lady's talking about the tattoos that we have and I heard her say that we must of got them while we were in prison..really you don't even know us and you say something like that..we like wearing are art on are skin and if you don't like it look at something else..js.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
19 Oct 17
It was perhaps true 100 years ago where tattoos were a reserved domain for soldiers and prisoners, but these ladies should evolve and look around them. I think I would have told them that I had escaped from jail and they should better not repeat it.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Oct 17
Same is true here and sailors or seafarers if I may add.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
19 Oct 17
That would of been so funny if I said something like that..the look on there face priceless..
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Oct 17
That was a display of ignorance, on her part! One time, I was struggling with a two year old at my side and carrying my infant daughter towards our car. An older lady looked at me in disgust and said, 'You ought to be ashamed of yourself! You're only a child, yourself!'
I was dumbfounded, then replied, 'I'm 24 years old, a married woman!' Her face looked shocked, she turned around quickly, then walked away in a hurry, realizing she was in error
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Oct 17
@hillhjill People need to keep their thoughts inside their stupid heads. For her to speak out about your tattoos, was rude, mean, and totally wrong!
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
19 Oct 17
@kobesbuddy it was and I don't see why she would even say something like that..almost everyone has one tattoo now today.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
19 Oct 17
See that is not right at all..we are so fast to judge people anymore..but like the saying goes don't judge a book by its cover..because we can sure surprise you.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
20 Oct 17
@hillhjill They can talk all they want but they should leave comments about people they don't know out of their conversations.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
19 Oct 17
Let them talk because nothing is going to change.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
@1hopefulman yes they should and if you think it keep it in your head.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
20 Oct 17
Oh that is really low..what in the world is wrong with some people..it would have been one thing to even think it, but to say it out so you could hear it too.
And on top of that yeah..lots of people are covered in tattoos today and never even went to prison wow...so ignorant.
Sorry that happen to you..
What did they say anyway about what they are going to do Hillary with your Husbands heart ..do you know yet?
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
20 Oct 17
@hillhjill Yes people are strange and dumb.
Well yes, so they are just going to keep an eye on it..what a check up every week or so for your husband?
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
Yeah that was very wrong of them to be like that but some people just are like that I guess..well his heart is not leaking bad enough at the moment that he don't have to have to surgery but the doctor wants to keep an eye on him just to be safe.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
@TiarasOceanView yeah about once a month or so and they said that his blood pressure is good so he don't have to take any pills for that.
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
20 Oct 17
@hillhjill hope you dont run into her again
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@thislittlepennyearns (62912)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
19 Oct 17
I hate when people judge tattoos..you can't see mine either of them if I have a T-shirt on but if I have a tank top on you can
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@thislittlepennyearns (62912)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
19 Oct 17
@hillhjill my other half has sinner on one forearm and saint on the other..so you can imagine what people say when they see him
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
19 Oct 17
@thislittlepennyearns oh I can imagine..because my husband's tats on his arms are skulls with flames and smoke like they are coming out of hell.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
19 Oct 17
You can see mine that I have a sleeve started on my left arm and my husband is covered in them on both arms..
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
21 Oct 17
@hillhjill That's just not right.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct 17
It's not and we live with it everyday that we step out of are house.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Oct 17
Ridiculous, irresponsible and very uncalled for comments
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
20 Oct 17
Ohh..i think those ladies are still living 100 years back. .. don't they know tattoos are common these days
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Oct 17
@hillhjill Maybe they need a tattoo over their nose, to improve their face!:)
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
Yeah maybe they are time travelers and got stuck in the wrong time.lol..
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Oct 17
One time, my aunt and uncle were dining out, with their son Richard, who had cerebral palsy. One man walked over to their table and firmly informed them, they shouldn't have Richard out in a public restaurant, because he made others sick, watching him eat:(
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Oct 17
@hillhjill My uncle actually went home and cried:( Imagine, that man saying such a mean thing, right in front of Richard! He was extremely intelligent, but progressively got more physically disabled.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
21 Oct 17
Oh my I couldn't even start to think how that made them feel that's just awful.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
They should of..I mean really we were sitting in a doctors office and there were many people around.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
22 Oct 17
@hillhjill
That is just rude Hillary. So you have tatoos. That is not their business. I guess they had to have something to talk about so when they saw your tatoos they had to comment.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
19 Oct 17
Wow the nerve of some people. Not only judgemental but also very rude. I don't get people like that. What business is it of theirs anyway.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
@Happy2BeMe yup and I believe in karma!!
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
It's none of there business and it was very rude..but it will come back around to them and they will get a taste of there own medican.
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@TheInvisibleMan (17597)
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19 Oct 17
@hillhjill I don't know how people can still think like this in 2017.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
19 Oct 17
@TheInvisibleMan yeah I have no clue..almost everyone I know has a tat.
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@chunchunwadaddy (284)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Oct 17
With the way the world is changing sometimes it is good just to note something and keep quiet. You just don't use the background or exposure or lack of it to judge other people.
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@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
20 Oct 17
Well. That's the world we have now ! everyone's has always something to say about you.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
Yes that's true..not a day goes by without you hearing something about someone.
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@FourWalls (68884)
• United States
20 Oct 17
You know the thing that stuns me? I can see someone thinking it, but to actually say it out loud where you could hear it??? I wonder if those old bags say "There's an illegal alien" if they hear someone speaking Spanish or "There's a welfare recipient" if they see a black person.
I don't personally have any tattoos (and I was in the Navy for six years, go figure!!), but as long as you're not imposing a tattoo on me then I'm not going to impose my no tattoos on you! Live and let live, folks! Sheesh!!
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@andriaperry (117133)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Oct 17
That is just funny! Where have these old bags been hiding? I do not have any but seriously prison would be the last thought in my head.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
Yeah I don't know no..I guess in a cave..yeah I don't see why they thought prison maybe to many movies with tattoo and prison but together lol.
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@WritesFromTheHeart (89)
• Hamilton, Bermuda
20 Oct 17
I would have said excuse me but people all over the world have tattoos where have you been living under a rock if so go crawl back under there for another 100 years But people will judge for what you do or what you do not do so the best advice I give people give people is do you because at the end of the day the choice is yours Not anyone elses so to heck with them.
You Are a Individual a Unique people are gonna hate on you no matter what so as long as you are happy with who you are then that is all that matters in Life really.
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@BigTalpha (117)
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20 Oct 17
Actually if you want to get technical you're being judgmental as well by saying that them saying those things are wrong. Everyone has a right to their opinion. If you look at the history of tattoos they use to only be used by those who practiced dark arts. So in a way they could be wrong.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
20 Oct 17
And yes I am be saying that..I'm just saying keep it to yourself and we all a little judgemental today.
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