Do you read the whole discussion or just the title?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 22, 2017 12:34pm CST
I posted a discussion a long time ago about reading a short discussion and not those longer ones. Why? So that I will still have time to read some of the posts here. It is not new to me if some will not going to read my discussion and just rely on what is in the title. But sometimes I find them amusing in making a comment which is not related to the body of the discussion. It makes me laugh sometimes. And if they find comfort about that, I think it's okay.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Oct 17
If it's far too long or a subject I'm uncomfortable with, I don't read it or do anything at all.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Oct 17
@JustBhem Yes, at times I do read a long post, written by one of my friends.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
@kobesbuddy Same with me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Oct 17
I always into a short discussion but if it's someone I followed I will read the entire post.
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@Lertka (370)
• Ukraine
22 Oct 17
I read what I'm interested in. Sometimes I read those discussions that my friends wrote here. And it's not worthwhile to trust the name of the discussion, it can be deceiving.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Oct 17
Yes, and the discussion is not with the title itself.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
@Lertka I also sometimes read long discussion if it's interesting to read.
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@Lertka (370)
• Ukraine
22 Oct 17
@JustBhem I like to read long discussions. So I learn about a person, what he thinks about and what worries him.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Oct 17
It depends on the subject being discussed , if it is something that I like I read through it. Normally before responding i go through the entire discussion or else how can I comment ?
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@TheHorse (220506)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Oct 17
Makes sense to me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Exactly.
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@much2say (56256)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Oct 17
I write both short and long . . . you can just tell from some of those comments whether a person actually read it or not. But most times I will end my discussion with a question . . . and I can understand if people just jump directly to that question. It's all good . . . in most cases it's just nice that someone took the time to say anything at all (unless it's something way off!).
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Sometimes I just go with the flow so not to offend them.
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@TheHorse (220506)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 17
I just read the title and then leave a comment like, "Great post! Have a blessed day!"
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Oct 17
Awesome.
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@ourlot (982)
22 Oct 17
Great comment, have a blessed day.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
@ourlot Thanks.
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@just4him (317385)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Oct 17
I find some of the comments are reflective of the question I asked at the end of the post. I always read the entire post. I've found that the title doesn't always have anything to do with the post itself.
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@TheHorse (220506)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Oct 17
I just got one of those comments that suggest the writer didn't read my post. Sigh.
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@just4him (317385)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Oct 17
@TheHorse That is frustrating. I had a couple like that today. It's hard to reply to them.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Of course, it happens most of the time.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
23 Oct 17
I read the whole discussion and then if I have something to add or say, I go ahead and make a comment.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
24 Oct 17
@JustBhem no. Before I post a comment, I make sure to read the whole discussion. Of course, each one of us do things differently so I won't impose what I do to others.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Do you think it's practical to just answer the title of the discussion rather than reading the whole post?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 17
@allen0187 Same with me, I read all the discussion first before engaging into commenting.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Oct 17
you will know if the user did not read the discussion if his comment is not really related to the post. i have some discussions like that, comments unrelated to the topics.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
26 Oct 17
@JustBhem but i am certain you read the whole discussion, right?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Oct 17
@ridingbet Of course, I always read the discussion.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Same with me, and I just go with the flow.
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@thelme55 (77162)
• Germany
22 Oct 17
I read the whole discussion. I am always curious
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@thelme55 (77162)
• Germany
23 Oct 17
@JustBhem you are right.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Yay. Sometimes curiosity will take us to a good conversation, right?
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
23 Oct 17
If do not have time to read a long one and no energy to read it I may scan it and decide if want to respond or not.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
24 Oct 17
@JustBhem I understand that. If I do not have time to read the whole thing then I may skip that discussion. It might be too much for my brain to handle at that time.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 17
@Hannihar Same with me, I sometimes feel so lazy to read the long ones.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
If it's a short discussion I read it.
@ourlot (982)
22 Oct 17
I always read at least a little of the message. But sometimes they are just too long.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Oct 17
I always read the discussion of whom I followed whether it's a short or a long discussion.
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@YrNemo (20255)
22 Oct 17
I noticed some replies were funny since the writers meant differently at the end of their discussion. I could only guess the readers might have been in a hurry at the time.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
And I am guilty sometimes.
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@YrNemo (20255)
23 Oct 17
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@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
23 Oct 17
I read the topics of discussion and if the topics interests me then I proceed .
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
So it doesn't matter if it's too short or too long?
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• India
23 Oct 17
@JustBhem It doesn't matter....
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• Boston, Massachusetts
22 Oct 17
if its longer than i want to read, then i usually don't comment. how about you?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Oct 17
I always go for short discussion and I read them.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
• Boston, Massachusetts
22 Oct 17
@JustBhem yes, exactly. better for everyone
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
23 Oct 17
it's an old recurrent issue, even way back in the old mylot
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
I see.
@LCaldwell (251)
• United States
24 Oct 17
I always read the discussion. If it is too long for me to be able to read and engage then I move on.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 17
Same with me, there are days I am so lazy to read them too.
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@lovebuglena (44743)
• Staten Island, New York
23 Oct 17
If I stumble upon a discussion that is quite long, if I don't have time to read the entire thing or am just not in the mood for a lengthy read, I will at least read skim through the whole thing before I leave a comment. Comments have to be related to the discussion and shouldn't be generic ones, so can't really reply without at least skimming through it. I wouldn't want people to comment just for the sake of commenting, so I try not to do that either. Also, I found it that if the title of a discussion is a question, some people will just answer that question in the comments and not read the actual discussion.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Yeah, I noticed that too. They will simply answer the title by not reading the whole discussion.
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
23 Oct 17
I do read the whole discussion beforecomnenting
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
Same as with me.
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@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Oct 17
I normally read the whole discussion before responding. if I have not time to read a longer one i skip and go to the shorter ones first then will come back for them when i have the time.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
I see, I always read those short one and if I already those short one, I will go for the long ones.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Oct 17
Sometimes the title can be the basis of it I will read a post or not. I do love reading through though for you never, the post may end up being an interesting one.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Oct 17
I always think that every discussion is worth to read.
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