This time they will have to fight to keep me

@Jackalyn (7558)
Oxford, England
October 23, 2017 5:19pm CST
I am worth something. I have a God given place in this world and like everyone else, when people don't value me I feel like moving on. I was talking to God about this feeling of being undervalued and He said, "This time let them fight to keep you and if they don't they lost something special." It is THEIR loss because I make it all work out together for your good. So that is how I will view it. I am not going to fight. I am moving on unless they fight to keep me. I am worth more than they know. I think that is how we should all view situations where people act negatively towards us. I am done with victim mentality. From now on, my attitude is that the poor things lost me because they had not got enough sense to keep me and I wish I had had this attitude years ago.
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@ashleyash (104)
24 Oct 17
true words never fight for whats not ment to fight for
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@AmbiePam (93953)
• United States
24 Oct 17
I had to take that attitude with a close family member. It was hard, but I felt so much better afterward.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
24 Oct 17
It' hard for me to envision your situation. Is it work? Family? A volunteer organization you're involved in? Your church? Seems each situation might need a different type of response.
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
24 Oct 17
Not able to say in public. Really, this is just a general thing. I have finally learned to stick up for me.
@JudyEv (342179)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Oct 17
It's good you've decided to stick up for yourself. And you are right - it will be their loss.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 17
That is a way to motivate yourself
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