Interesting results from the SEX part of my Intro to Psychology class

@TheHorse (220426)
Walnut Creek, California
October 24, 2017 3:52pm CST
In last night's Intro to Psychology class, I did an exercise in which I had the men and women anonymously ask questions of either gender (but mostly their preferred gender) that they'd always wanted to ask but never had the chance to. Two interesting questions that came up (among dozens of others): Women to men: Which would you prefer, a series of one-night-stands or a deep relationship with someone you care for? Men to women: Would you sleep with a guy on the first date? Any guesses as to the percentage of men who would prefer a serious relationship and the percentage of women who would sleep with a man on the first date? The age range in this class is 18 to 65, with the median being around 25.
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@vandana7 (100638)
• India
25 Oct 17
I think the answers would differ as per the stress levels of the person at that point of time. Same person may answer differently at a different time, kind of. lol. So if a woman is kind of extremely stressed out with whatever is happening around her, it would be like she would be willing to sleep with a guy on her first date. That would be like anything to get her out of what she is going through. Men who are financially well settled, would seek lasting relationship as that is the logical sequential action. But then, I am no psychologist..lol. My assessment about people is based on my limited experience. lol
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
There's a lot of sense in what you say.
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25 Oct 17
@TheHorse She is following a sensible person... SO senses are getting into her @vandana7 It's okay! You are always welcome
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25 Oct 17
@vandana7 NO because in recent activity I saw 2 posts on which I could see my friends But I liked your smart brain. It is becoming smarter due to my smartest mind
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@crossbones27 (49721)
• Mojave, California
24 Oct 17
I imagine it is the opposite of what one would think. I would say men get tired of being non serious all the time and women get tired of being too serious all the time. Did I just say that out loud?
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
You're on the right track--that's for sure.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Oct 17
I bet the ; answers were interesting too lol lol
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Oct 17
There was a lot of laughter last night, but a lot of good discussion too. I'll elaborate later.
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• Eugene, Oregon
25 Oct 17
I would guess, or hope, that the majority of men would want that deeper, lasting relationship. Maybe 48% of women would sleep with a guy on the first date.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
Almost 50%? Have women become harlots? Wait. I have to look that up.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
@JamesHxstatic It most certainly can be!
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• Eugene, Oregon
25 Oct 17
@TheHorse Wait, isn't harlotry a vocation?
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
25 Oct 17
The second question of men to women answered the first question of women to men @TheHorse .
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Oct 17
Do elaborate. I am a Bear of Little Brain.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
27 Oct 17
@TheHorse A lot of men are looking for a quickie; ergo their question "Would you sleep with a guy on the first date." A lot of women are looking for the long relationship; ergo their question to eliminate the 'other' guys.
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@JudyEv (342277)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Oct 17
I think men, especially as they mature, would prefer a deep relationship. Not too sure about the first date bit. I'll go 70% on the first and 30% on the second.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
Gracias. Those would have been my guesses as well.
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@LadyDuck (472121)
• Switzerland
25 Oct 17
I know that about 48% of men say to have taken their first dates to bed, I think it's true. I think that most men prefer a deep relationship. If you are curious about Italy, 14% of women say they accept to sleep with a guy at the first date. Many more than at my young days.
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@LadyDuck (472121)
• Switzerland
25 Oct 17
@TheHorse Good, all Italian girls knew that is "NEVER the first time, if you do not want to appear like a sl..ut"
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
2 Nov 17
@LadyDuck I think I'd rather date an Italian woman than an American woman at this point.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
We're all trollops at heart! I'll post my results later today.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
24 Oct 17
Great questions. Interested in hearing the results!
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
@DianneN I'll just give you percentages. You can imagine the pie charts in your head. @Maluse will probably ask me to give the percentages in "European."
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
No guesses?
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
25 Oct 17
@TheHorse Ok. 50/50. I expect a pie chart or a bar graph as proof!
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@just4him (317315)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Oct 17
I have a feeling the percentage is the same for both questions - low.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
But that's what we'd EXPECT, based on stereotypes about men and women. Knowing me, wouldn't you "expect" me to ask if the percentages are different from what we'd expect?
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
2 Nov 17
@just4him 90% of men prefer a serious relationship. 77% of women said they'd sleep with a man on the first date.
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@just4him (317315)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Oct 17
@TheHorse So you're saying the percentages aren't what we'd expect? Now that's interesting. Yes, I would expect that from you.
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@andriaperry (117173)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Oct 17
I will go with 80% Men wants deep relationships to 80% of women liking one night stands. Deep relationships are also called " free cooks and housekeepers" One night stands are also called "Check under the hood before becoming the free cook and housekeeper" because, happy wife happy life But that is just me down here in Alabama, ya know where we are all red necks and uneducated
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Oct 17
90% of men wanted a serious relationship. 76% of women would sleep with a man on the first date. What the heck is going on?
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Oct 17
@Platespinner Small plastic figures get a nice, tight lock when they "hook up." Yes, we should have asked the same questions of the opposite genders.
• Eugene, Oregon
30 Oct 17
@TheHorse I suspect that has changed drastically since I was in my 20s.
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@NJChicaa (120195)
• United States
24 Oct 17
No guesses here but I'm interested to see the results
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
And the results are....I'll wait until I get a few more guesses.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Nov 17
Did you see the results? 90% of men would refer a serious relationship. More than 75% of women would sleep with a man on the first date. I was surprised by the latter.
@GooglePlus (3830)
25 Oct 17
A series of one-night-stands ---- Above 55 age A a deep relationship with someone you care for ---- below 55 age Though it's a guess Would you sleep with a guy on the first date? Only women can tell it @DaddyEvil Where are you how can you miss pony's discussion ?
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Oct 17
I don't sleep with guys. And I'm too old to be dragging girls home for "one night stands." Yeech.
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27 Oct 17
@TheHorse Where did I said that you sleep with guys You can drag girls for one night stands @topffer @purplealabaster @jlyn10 where is everyone ?
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27 Oct 17
@topffer Hey hi What happen to others
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25 Oct 17
My guess is, 85% of men value a meaningful relationship. I believe that 80% of women would not sleep with men on their first, second, third... 10th dates. What with this rape-culture being thrown around.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Oct 17
But this is the US! We have more than 50% of our young people (I made that figure up) listening to rap "music" here.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Oct 17
I would guess that maybe around 60% of men would want a serious relationship and 40% of women would sleep with a guy on the first date.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Oct 17
Thanks for responding! OK if I wait a bit before divulging the results?
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• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Oct 17
@TheHorse No problem, hope I won't be by the time you do
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
@chunchunwadaddy Perhaps you'll wake up to the exciting results. Or should I be like the fake news stories and say JAW-DROPPING or UNBELIEVABLE.
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• United States
4 Nov 17
I guess how the numbers would be based on how bad the itch is that needs to be scratched. Some prefer to scratch it themselves though.
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• United States
5 Nov 17
@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Nov 17
The results suggest some very itchy women these days!
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@DaddyEvil (137769)
• United States
28 Oct 17
Hmmm... with that wide of an age range, pony... I would guess about 10% of the men would prefer serious relationships and somewhere around 33% of the women would sleep with a guy on their first date.
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@DaddyEvil (137769)
• United States
28 Oct 17
@TheHorse Thank you for sharing the results, pony... Uhm... I actually read through this entire discussion and saw where you posted the results for other people.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Oct 17
90% of men said they'd prefer a serious relationship. Above 75% of the women said they'd sleep with a man on the first date.
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
27 Oct 17
Interesting questions. I wouldn't have the nerve to ask.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Oct 17
The results for the men didn't surprise me. But the results for the women did!
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
25 Oct 17
I would guess 50 percent would men to have a deep relationship and 70 percent would want to have series of one night stand. On the second question, 50 percent will say these women would want to sleep on first date.
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Oct 17
How can percentages add up to 120%?
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
2 Nov 17
@ilocosboy Heh. See my later post. The percentage for women surprised me.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
27 Oct 17
@TheHorse oh it should be 50 and not 70
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@reskyyandi (3608)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 17
the result is not any sense. Man get serious in relationship and woman not
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Nov 17
Yes, we live in interesting times, don't we?
@myhuka (207)
27 Oct 17
so what is the answer?
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@TheHorse (220426)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Oct 17
I think I'll put it in a new post, since many might not re-read this post. 90% of men said they'd prefer a deeper relationship. 75% of women said they WOULD sleep with someone on a first date. The latter surprised me.