suicidal thoughts.Is this normal?
@amadeo (111938)
United States
October 25, 2017 3:48pm CST
Good afternoon.
a touchy subject I know.today was the first time in my life thinking of this.
no i am not going to do this.But some reason had thoughts today.
I am tired being tired,Injection,blood transfusion etc.
Having blood drawn etc.
@DianneN had a comment saying if you do not have good health.
What is left.She got me thinking on this.Yes what is left for me now.
Guess I am just tired,tired,tired.
I do not meant to be morbid on this.
Just want to hash it out.
Is this normal?
photo by google
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
25 Oct 17
You are just tired and weary. Don't even think those thoughts, Fredo, or I may have to smack you on the side of the head! I'm sure what you're feeling is normal for you. Put your trust in your excellent doctors and rest when you can. You are always on the go, go, go.
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@snowy22315 (182198)
• United States
25 Oct 17
It is certainly difficult to go through health challenges, financial problems..etc. I think having these thoughts is probably something many people experience. Can you go to a support group? I know my grandfather who had a type of blood cancer..went through this at one point..At one point he got tired of the whole thing, and just said he didn't want any more transfusions..He was quite old at the time though, had had a good life..and made a choice. I don't see you being at that point. Everyone would miss you..!
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@snowy22315 (182198)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@amadeo Thanks, but everybody has to go sometime. I think he just made the decision to let nature take it's course.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@snowy22315 thank you and sorry about your grandfather there.
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@jstory07 (139971)
• Roseburg, Oregon
25 Oct 17
I think the way you are thinking is normal. But you are so full of life and you enjoy going places and seeing things so you would never do anything like that. You have your husband to think of and you would never want him to feel sad and all alone.
Keep doing the best you can and keep doing good things. You are a great person full of life.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
26 Oct 17
I think many people have these thoughts at one time or another usually in a time of stress. Acting on it is what's not normal.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
26 Oct 17
@amadeo You are more than welcome
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
25 Oct 17
Yes its normal when you give so much and now you needed rest. Take care.
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@crossbones27 (49722)
• Mojave, California
25 Oct 17
I hear you, do hope you start feeling better, but I would hate to have to do all that also. Hopefully they find a better way to keep you in good health.
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@crossbones27 (49722)
• Mojave, California
26 Oct 17
@amadeo Hang in there bud, they invent things at light speed these days. Might want to read up on some things also. That is usually what I do to make myself feel better. Find out what other people do who are in a similar boat so to speak.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@crossbones thanks.So far they have not.That is the sad part of it.
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@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Oct 17
I know you are tired and worn out, but you don't need to think these things. You have a good life with good doctors and a spouse who loves you. I say a prayer you will live to be 100 in good health.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@UncleJoes thank you Uncle Joe you always put a smile on my face
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@Tampa_girl7 (50524)
• United States
26 Oct 17
I hope these thoughts pass and that tomorrow is a better day for you.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@tampa_girl it has been on my mind for a time.I try to erased it.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
25 Oct 17
My Lot would never be the same, without Alfredo Rossi! We love you
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
26 Oct 17
@amadeo You are very welcome, Fredo!
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@ijswzr (37)
• Philippines
26 Oct 17
I think it's normal with your condition and/or situation. But still don't lose hope. Just pray to GOD and try to watch a motivational and inspirational videos on youtube. Try to watch the video of a man with no arms and legs. I think his name is Nick Vujicic. I'm sure it will help you.
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@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
26 Oct 17
One has to observe thes thoughts with detachment. Then such thoughts will go away. Otherwise, such thoughts , if not observed, will be a very heavy load on us and pressurise on us a lot.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@Frederick42 thank you.That is so well said there.
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
26 Oct 17
Maybe she made that comment out of nothing, just for the sake of the post. I'm sure if she was thinking clearly a bit of what it could do to you.
I personally discourage you from thinking about it. It was nothing but a personal opinion, that's all. YOU STILL GOT MORE IN LIFE out there.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@Letranknight2015 The comment had nothing to do with that.I just keep me thinking.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
26 Oct 17
I hope you get your strength back and take it one day at a time, some days are not so good but others are. Is it normal? Yes. I hope you get to your doctor to see if there are new things that might help you feel better.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@PainsOnSlate thank you.Will see him Tuesday as usual
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@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
26 Oct 17
In such a situation becoming abnormal is normal. No regrets. Just a phase of life.
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@craftsmart (265)
• United States
26 Oct 17
I'm sorry you've been feeling tired and down. I think it can be a pretty normal thought, but please get help if it ever becomes more than that.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Oct 17
@craftsmart Yes this I was thinking about ti.
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