I am having the worst month . . .

United States
October 26, 2017 3:18am CST
Usually October is one of my favorite months but this year, I can't wait for it to be over. Around the 10th, one of my sisters cats, Munchkin, went missing and about 5 days later, her other cat, Spunky also went missing. They are still missing to this day and I miss them like crazy. It's gotten to the point where I dont even like being at my sister's house without them there. Grandma's Headstone: I contacted some family and world war 3 happened. They all started fighting but at first, they all liked my design. When they found out how much it cost, some of them decided that they didnt like it afterall and wanted something bigger but no one wants to step up and take point on it. And just now when I took my uncle to work, a possum ran out in front of me and I hit it with my car. I felt so bad that on the way home, I went looking for it and it's no where to be found. So of course, I cried the rest of the way home thinking about how it could be curled up somewhere in pain and dying. I really hope that November is better!!
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
26 Oct 17
I can understand how it was a bad month. I am sorry all that happened to you. I hope November will be a better month for you too. I hate when bad things keep coming one right after the other.
• United States
27 Oct 17
Thank you. I really hope that it all gets better too. As far as my grandma's headstone is concerned, they are saying that I have no right to want to get her one as I'm just a grandchild and that what is put on the headstone is not my decision but they still want me to contribute the $300 I was planning on paying for the one I was going to buy.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
27 Oct 17
@CountryGirl31 All I can say is that sucks and she was your grandmother and I believe you have the right if they are not doing anything about. Usually the immediate family does decide, but, you should also be a part of the decision.
• United States
27 Oct 17
@Hannihar Most of them are acting like they've been thinking about it for the last 6 months but have done nothing. I have a company that is willing to do the stone and deliver it for $300. More for the bigger one but they will put whatever headstone I buy from them at the cemetery as long as the foundation is already done. And this company is from CA. I'm in NY
• United States
1 Nov 17
I'm sorry to hear that you're having an awful month. I really do hope that November and the rest of the months will be better for you. And I hope that possum is resting in paradise. You didn't do it intentionally, so don't be so harsh on yourself.