Wedding planning
By Cait Tallon
@skydream (1445)
Agate, Colorado
October 26, 2017 3:55pm CST
My week has been filled with wedding planning and I am so happy because it feels like we got a lot ready then realizing how much i have to do and how much time I need I'm a little stressed.
We found a venue but had to change our date or else it was 10,000 more but we get to see the place soon to see if we really like it. I asked my friends to be my bridesmaids and maid of honor so I'm really excited for that. We have invitations ready so as soon as the venue is ours we can add that detail and go.
The stressful part for me is the guest list. There's this girl I was friends with for 8 years and we were close until last year and barely talk but she keeps saying she wants to come but we barely talk and it's around $70 a person to come and my fiance doesn't like her and most people don't so I don't want to invite her but she works with my fiance and I don't want a confrontation to happen so I'm worried and anxious about that. It's just really hard to pick who to invite and who not to invite and what will come of doing it.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
26 Oct 17
It is a challenge of whom to invite but I would just invite the people that matter.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
26 Oct 17
@skydream I understand but we can't invite everyone and there will always be somebody that feels hurt because they weren't invited.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
27 Oct 17
@skydream wow that is a lot of money for a few weeks difference.
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
28 Oct 17
@Happy2BeMe Definitely I was really surprised all becuase of off and on season.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 Oct 17
if he doesn't want her and he is willing to not invite someone you wouldn't want then don't invite her. partners need to work with each other equally and she needs to understand that.
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@Courtlynn (67083)
• United States
27 Oct 17
Sorry the old friend is making things stressful for you. Should be a happy time for you right now.. hopw yoy can figure things out. But personally, I wouldn't invite her and if she acts immature over it then you'd know you picked the right choice.
Next year? So quick! Dows that mean you are going to his parents, here in MA for Thanksgiving this year? So you can see and meet everyone way before the wedding?
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
28 Oct 17
That's true. I just chose not to invite her to save a spot for someone else and because we barely talk and I don't want to waste the money on someone I don't talk to.
Yeah he really wants to do it next year. His mom is going to fly here the beginning of next year so we can all meet before the wedding. Then after the wedding a few months or so we'll go visit MA to see all the family that couldn't make it.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
27 Oct 17
Ask your fiance to see what they think, probably not the best to invite her if you fear something childish is going to happen. I wouldn't invite my old best friend even though I was friends with her for over a decade but we had a falling out last year.
Weddings seem so stressful, I wouldn't even know where to start haha I guess having a significant other might be a good start haha!
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
28 Oct 17
@skydream There you go! And yeahh weddings seem like a pain haha just make sure you get to taste your own cake, since most do not get to haha!
@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
28 Oct 17
I took your advice and when I asked him he said he doesn't want her there so it's for the best not to invite her. Thank you for the help!(:
I thought it was going to be simple not so much haha
@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
28 Oct 17
Thank you. That's very true so I'm going to tell her this weekend she can't come
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
27 Oct 17
That is certainly a hard part..But don't stress out.
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