Is it right to call them selfish?

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I just had a conversation or discussion you can say, over here on mylot. This is all purely my opinion and I am not judging instead I appreciate everyone’s opinion and they have just a valid point. But they are completely opposite and 100% valid. I was looking for some great discussions and came across this “is suicide only option”. I completely disagree with that and others as well. But,is it true that they are selfish or is there anything that justifies that yes, they do think about themselves. The famous ‘quotes’ people use for such beings who took this kind of unfortunate steps like “they didn’t thought about their families and closed ones” or something like “What a coward step” or anyhting similar. I completely agree to the point where you say people need to seek other to help themselves but not ignore them. To that, I have talked with people over Quora who comes there with such questions and seek for help but, something I have noticed was that...everyone asked answers for them being “Anonymous”. Do they enjoy being a depressed soul, sad everytime, cornering themselves from others and just stay happy being lonely. I had a talk with this person who had express his feelings and moodswings to me. Situation was, he was having pretty strongmood swings and had reached to a stage where as he told me, want to smell or just like to watch blood. I had goosebumps at that monent. I was shocked to know that this all was the reason he secretly started therapies and wanted to isolate himself from others so that, they wont be hurt by all this. He kept all this to him and suffered the pain. He us not the only one. I would like to ask you one thing, just think about a scenario...reason for suicide...strength for suicide. That will/power to live that had died somewhere from the time when you used to laugh at the age of 2 to the age where everything is just burden to you. That circumstances, experiences one had gone through. Exactly what kind of pain is it? After all such experiences I still cant call them selfish. I’m sorry. Either they are thinking about their parents,families or not but, i will never call them selfish or weak.