what woud you do ? if this happened to you little advise please / myLot

Mumbai, India

November 1, 2017 9:22am CST

hey friends its soooo annoying to see someone you like from heart annoying you and treating as if you dont exist in this world sometimes i feel very annoyed to see such people around me .i feel like confronting them but then stop thinking they r the only ones who have been with me in my bad times but what would you call such people who themselves give you trouble and then pretend to care for you in front of the world

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staplotick

@stapllotik (1933)

• India

12 Dec 17

When things do not improve, it is better to depart with dignity.

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staplotick

@stapllotik (1933)

• India

16 Jan 18

@saiama true. Don't worry time is the biggest medicine. Just keep yourself busy with productive activity. Who knows you deserve better than this.

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shweta s

@saiama (872)

• Mumbai, India

18 Jan 18

@stapllotik exactly this is what keeps me going

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@saiama (872)

• Mumbai, India

16 Jan 18

@stapllotik i too have thought about it

but the memories of closed ones are hard to forget

@Daveswami (228)

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2 Nov 17

They might having a bad day or something. There are people who are cold from outside but very warm inside. I don't know just be yourself you will find someone who loves you even for you imperfection

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shweta s

@saiama (872)

• Mumbai, India

3 Nov 17

@Daveswami lets hope sooooo

shweta s

@saiama (872)

• Mumbai, India

9 Nov 17

@Daveswami

very true how you deal with such situations

Devendra swami

@Daveswami (228)

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3 Nov 17

@saiama yep. Cause when the person we love hurts us than it is way more painful.

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rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

10 May 18

I think, when they keep doing that to you, it's time to look for some friends who really cares for you and vice versa.

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shweta s

@saiama (872)

• Mumbai, India

11 May 18

@SIMPLYD (78014) I have started taking this and many such advise these days and working on it hope it works out great

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Robin

@Daelii (5619)

• United States

2 Nov 17

I'm a little confused by what you said. You have a friend who you care for and has been there to support you. But at times they are mean and act as if you don't exist? If it was me, I'd probably try talking to them at first. See if maybe they'd want to chat over a cup of tea in a relaxed environment. If they are there to support you, then maybe they don't understand or see themselves as doing something hurtful? Communicate with them to express your feelings and thoughts and be open to listen to theirs. I hope you find happiness!

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shweta s

@saiama (872)

• Mumbai, India

2 Nov 17

@Daelii thank you for your advice i have tried doing this talking with them but things did not show signs of improvement