why are people so heartless

@aureliah (24322)

Kenya

November 8, 2017 8:36am CST

For the last six months, I have dealt with a lady who has so much negative energy. She says all the wrong things about people just to see them down. She believes that she's got it all to even go after people's boyfriends.. Have you met such people? Howvdo you deal with them?

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@nangayo (2290)

• Nairobi, Kenya

9 Nov 17

I have met such people and learnt most of them have an inferiority complex. They just are looking for attention.

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@nangayo (2290)

• Nairobi, Kenya

14 Nov 17

@aureliah They have to create all the fuss to be noticed and that is their game.

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

15 Nov 17

@nangayo Very very true and when you cut off all links, they get disappointed.

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

13 Nov 17

Exactly but the problem is that they are never comfortable with their lives.

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• Philippines

12 Nov 17

Those kinds of people are not happy with their lives, because they only tend to say negative things to people where in fact they are just insecure.

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• Philippines

14 Nov 17

@aureliah as much as possible, just ignore them so they wont affect you with their negative doings

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

13 Nov 17

Negativity is toxic and they do not end up well. They are always worried about something

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

15 Nov 17

@anorona I had to cut off links completely since this was the best thing for me.

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@sjvg1976 (41290)

• Delhi, India

8 Nov 17

I neglect such negative people and try not to remain in company of such people.

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

13 Nov 17

That is a smart move since such negativity can be so damaging

@LadyDuck (472060)

• Switzerland

8 Nov 17

Yes, unfortunately I have met people like this. I try to stay away.

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

13 Nov 17

Yeah staying away has proved to also work in my situation.

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@amadeo (111938)

• United States

8 Nov 17

No I have not.How do handle them.Bite Me.

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

13 Nov 17

hahaha re you for real? These people are many and they do not know how to stop

@amadeo (111938)

• United States

13 Nov 17

@aureliah I have not me one yet.

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

13 Nov 17

• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico

8 Nov 17

Yes, maybe she has a kind of trauma or something that hurt her, I recommend to be patient and try to be sympathetic

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

13 Nov 17

You are sympathetic but they get worse and if you keep away they find ways to get to you.

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

25 Nov 17

Some people, like wasps, just have to be left alone. Are you forced to deal with her?

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@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

4 Dec 17

@aureliah There are 8 billion people and some are actually nice.

@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

4 Dec 17

No because I left her alone already

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@aureliah (24322)

• Kenya

5 Dec 17

@1hopefulman very true

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