Way of Responding: I was so careless. Can you forgive me?
By simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
Germany
November 14, 2017 2:27am CST
Hello mylotters Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening
I woke up with a cold weather and maybe a little emotional but it has nothing to do with the weather but I just realize something about the discussion on one of mylotter and just strike me a little about the responds of some there 
I didn`t post this to make an excuse but to say sorry for being so careless in responding
When I first came back here, I don`t remember someone ever welcomed me the way newbies are welcomed here lately but there are few people around just helped me enjoy the site.
I sometimes felt to participate by also sharing my thoughts with the writer but not to make them feel bad about it, because it`s how I understand of having a discussion.
Discussion for me is openly sharing thoughts and experiences about the writers topic it can be not the same
Just want to let you know that whoever might not like me responding the way I define it can tell me so I`ll be more careful around and enjoy mylotting 
Sorry Everyone!
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I didn`t post this to make an excuse but to say sorry for being so careless in responding
When I first came back here, I don`t remember someone ever welcomed me the way newbies are welcomed here lately but there are few people around just helped me enjoy the site.
I sometimes felt to participate by also sharing my thoughts with the writer but not to make them feel bad about it, because it`s how I understand of having a discussion.
Discussion for me is openly sharing thoughts and experiences about the writers topic it can be not the same
Just want to let you know that whoever might not like me responding the way I define it can tell me so I`ll be more careful around and enjoy mylotting
Sorry Everyone!
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50 responses
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
Oh Thank you so much for making me feel better I`ll keep that in mind I agree with you Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dropping by here! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 
I`ll keep that in mind I agree with you Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dropping by here! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 4 people like this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
20 Nov 17
@creativeaashish 
Welcome and Thank you too for sharing your thoughts and dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting!
Welcome and Thank you too for sharing your thoughts and dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 1 person likes this
@creativeaashish (2609)
• Kathmandu, Nepal
19 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 I know Simplyme how great you are! On the first day you suggested me to be patient and go through the responses as well as terms and conditions of myLot! I personally don't think people expressing their thoughts should be taken in wrong way! Thank you for sharing it caused a lot of discussions!
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 17
Just wondering, did anyone ever tell you that you gave an inappropriate response to their discussions? I think it's great that you're sharing your thoughts but you really don't have to feel bad for disagreeing with someone's opinion. As long as you're not insulting or offending anyone then I don't think you need to be sorry about anything.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
Oh I can`t tell but there are some who are thinking that way but they can`t directly tell me but maybe in this way those mylotter can open up here and clear the misunderstanding Thank you for making me feel good. Maybe I`m just being emotional again 
Thank you for making me feel good. Maybe I`m just being emotional again 4 people like this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
@cahaya1983 Thank you so much my dear friend! I`ll keep that in mind Have a great day and Happy mylotting!
Thank you so much my dear friend! I`ll keep that in mind Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 4 people like this
@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 I believe most members here are very open can accept differences of opinion. You're fine!
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
Thank you for making me feel good about it I`m just thinking that maybe because of my careless and childish ways there are others can`t understand me better just open it up here and if unconsciously did something then my sorry is for them Thank you for dropping by and shared your thoughts with me. Have a great day and Happy mylotting
I`m just thinking that maybe because of my careless and childish ways there are others can`t understand me better just open it up here and if unconsciously did something then my sorry is for them Thank you for dropping by and shared your thoughts with me. Have a great day and Happy mylotting 4 people like this
@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
14 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 thanks and same for you
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
So true! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 3 people like this
@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
14 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 It happens that newbies write a post to let everyone know that this is their first post, that they just joined, that they need help. I never did.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Nov 17
there was one user who indiscriminately responded to each and every comment in my discussion, as if it was her/his discussion. i asked him/her why he/she was doing that, and she/he was somewhat furious. she/he was a newbie and he/she followed me. after my comment, she/he unfollowed me right away. well, that is childishness.
although we can respond to the comments of others, it should only be those directed to the author, and not all comments. i thought this user responded to all comments so the ones who commented will check on her/his discussions.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
Oh sorry about that one I understand that you felt that way but I sometimes do the same It`s because I wanted to interact with those mylotters who participated in a discussions but don`t get any responds back from the writer quick or sometimes I was just happy having the same thoughts about the writers topic and love discussing it with the mylotters who participated there but I`ll be glad that you send me a message if I made some mistake like that so I can remember. I`m not perfect and can`t avoid making mistakes sometimes but I`m glad you shared with me here your thoughts and experiences. Thank you my dear friend and Happy mylotting!
I understand that you felt that way but I sometimes do the same It`s because I wanted to interact with those mylotters who participated in a discussions but don`t get any responds back from the writer quick or sometimes I was just happy having the same thoughts about the writers topic and love discussing it with the mylotters who participated there but I`ll be glad that you send me a message if I made some mistake like that so I can remember. I`m not perfect and can`t avoid making mistakes sometimes but I`m glad you shared with me here your thoughts and experiences. Thank you my dear friend and Happy mylotting! 4 people like this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
18 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 it is fine with me because we already developed a better interaction and friendship between the 2 of us. this user was a newbie when he/she acted that way.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
Thank you so much for saying that it makes my heart melt It just that I can`t help myself thinking sometimes that there are others might misunderstand my being childish Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 3 people like this
@Ganma7 (3664)
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14 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 we all have our bad days and I have felt childish manytimes.we can help each other through them
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
Thanks! I will! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 2 people like this
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
15 Nov 17
it must be a language thing. because you do tend to respond with some strange things. i just figure you are not understanding some things said. need better translation maybe?
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
No it`s not about translation but it`s my poor reading comprehension thing sometimes and got mixed up on some things I`ll be more careful in responding to avoid wrong understanding on the topic! Glad to know that from you Happy mylotting!
I`ll be more careful in responding to avoid wrong understanding on the topic! Glad to know that from you Happy mylotting! 4 people like this
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
15 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 okay. hope you have more good days here. hugs
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
14 Nov 17
I keep an open mind every time I am here and I always bear in mind that I am in an international site so no problems
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
Oh Thank you so much I`ll keep that in mind my friend Happy mylotting
I`ll keep that in mind my friend Happy mylotting 4 people like this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
Thank you my dear friend! I`ll keep that in mind! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 3 people like this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
Thank you my dear friend Glad to know that from you but I don`t know any other sites beside mylot even Bubbles you mentioned that`s why I had some difficulty in interacting with mylotters when I started my comeback. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 3 people like this
@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
16 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 you are very welcome. Have a great day, too as well as happy Mylotting.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
Thank you for making me feel better, I`ll keep that in mind! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 4 people like this
@LightMan123 (109)
• Canada
15 Nov 17
You don't have to offer an apology. This is internet. Cheers!
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@GardenGerty (160611)
• United States
15 Nov 17
As far as I can see your responses are just fine. I think you are fair and truthful and I hope you will not worry.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
Thank you so much for the compliment and warm concern I`m glad knowing that from you! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 2 people like this
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
15 Nov 17
You are free to share your thoughts on a discussion without offending the host or writing nasty things about a post.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
15 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 There is no Sir or Madam here on mylot, we all are equal here 
, therefore, there is no need to address me as Sir.
My observation tells that you conduct yourself on mylot in a respectful and nice manner and you are always to the point. Keep it up.
Have a nice day!
, therefore, there is no need to address me as Sir.
My observation tells that you conduct yourself on mylot in a respectful and nice manner and you are always to the point. Keep it up.
Have a nice day!3 people like this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
I`ll keep that in mind Sir Thank you for the adivse and I`ll enjoy mylotting in a respectful manners. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 3 people like this
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
15 Nov 17
I always like you to be one of my responders in my discussion. Hope to see you always
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
Thank you my friend! Wish you a great break Thank you too for always taking time dropping by on my discussions Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 1 person likes this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
I`m not familiar with Bubblews as I only been in mylot along time ago and not other places until now, I only get the chance to have friends online through this site mylot and I was happy having a nice interactions with mylotters including you. Thank you so much for making me feel better, sharing your thoughts, experiences and dropping by! Happy mylotting 2 people like this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
15 Nov 17
Oh Thank you my dear friend Yes I was back after a long time of not being so active and might not be active next year but I`ll try to find time visiting mylot after my classes hours Glad to have good interactions with you and all mylotters here and that made me so happy each day Have a great day and Happy mylotting
Thank you my dear friend Yes I was back after a long time of not being so active and might not be active next year but I`ll try to find time visiting mylot after my classes hours Glad to have good interactions with you and all mylotters here and that made me so happy each day Have a great day and Happy mylotting 3 people like this
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
15 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788
You are so welcome and I am glad when you are here simplyme.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
14 Nov 17
I've always enjoyed your comments and discussions.
Hm, did you post a "hi this is me" type of post on here when you first joined?
Sometimes I won't say welcome to a new member, because I don't initially recognize that they're new/didn't look at their interactions....
But! I will say welcome now. I'm happy you're here. :-)
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
14 Nov 17
No, I didn`t post telling that I was new here I`m so shy to be noticed like that but one of mylotters here just responded to my old post and made me continue posting new ones until decided to delete those old discussions of mine to maintain a few recent postings Thank you so much for giving me such a nice thoughts, It helps me to feel better here and enjoy mylotting! It just that there are times that made me thinking maybe there are mylotters who might misunderstand my childish sometimes Thank you for dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting!
I`m so shy to be noticed like that but one of mylotters here just responded to my old post and made me continue posting new ones until decided to delete those old discussions of mine to maintain a few recent postings Thank you so much for giving me such a nice thoughts, It helps me to feel better here and enjoy mylotting! It just that there are times that made me thinking maybe there are mylotters who might misunderstand my childish sometimes Thank you for dropping by! Have a great day and Happy mylotting! 3 people like this
@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
14 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 It's all good. Oh dear you are more shy than even me. Bless your heart though. I am blessed to know you.
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