Break it!

@shubhu3 (36463)
New Delhi, India
November 15, 2017 12:18am CST
Ever wondered how would it feel to live with someone who has a mental illness? Ever lived with one? We people often crib about our appearances, health, and try what not to make ourselves according to the set standards of the society. Now, what about those people who are born with a psychological problem or encounter one during their lifetime. So, if you ever encountered living with such a soul, especially if that person is your life partner what would you do? Leave her/him? Curse? Probably that's the most easiest way out to respond. Yet have you ever wondered about how much weaknesses do you imbibe within you? How easy it is to blaim someone who is infront of our eyes than something which we imbibe. If we think about it then may be it won't be that hard to live with that person. When our dear ones accept and support us after knowing our faults, then why can't be accept and support those who suffer a mental illness. The stigma of the psychological disorders needs to be broken and a more supportive measure needs to be taken up to help those with a mental illness.
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@LadyDuck (472160)
• Switzerland
15 Nov 17
My sister-in-law was schizophrenic, it is a mental disease, but she was the most kind woman I have ever met. My brother divorced, I have always been close to her. I think that my brother did the wrong thing. He knew since the beginning she had a problem, she needed help.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
15 Nov 17
He should be more supportive at that moment. I agree with you.
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@aureliah (24326)
• Kenya
15 Nov 17
That was the wrong thing because if the condition was to end, and she became more successful would he want her back?
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@LadyDuck (472160)
• Switzerland
15 Nov 17
@shubhu3 I found very rude to divorce just because "he had enough" of the fact not all the time she reasoned as normal people do.
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@Dyvette16 (4301)
• United States
22 Nov 17
I have not but I was in the medical field and have worked with before , it is difficult at times because you do not know at all what is going through their heads , we can be on one topic and they are just going in different direction . The best thing to do is try your best to understand them because at times they change their moods for a reason , similar to a baby . Now it does depend on how each persons situation is but this is based off the ones I have worked with . Been in a psychiatric unit for about 2-3 months when I was in nursing school
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
23 Nov 17
I understand. I am myself a Psychologist. So I have seen many of such scenarios and people. More empathy, support, and affection is needed to give them.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
23 Nov 17
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@Dyvette16 (4301)
• United States
23 Nov 17
@shubhu3 yes completely agree
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@JudyEv (342285)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Nov 17
I think it would take a special kind of person to live with someone who has a mental illness. I'm not sure that I could.
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@JudyEv (342285)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Nov 17
@shubhu3 I guess so but I do hope I'm not put to the test.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
16 Nov 17
@JudyEv Hhehe yeah.
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
15 Nov 17
May be. I believe with a professional guidance everything is possible even by each one of us.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
15 Nov 17
We cannot just watched them like that especially when they are uncontrollable, the best thing to do is to bring them to specialized facility just for them so that they will be given importance.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
15 Nov 17
Exactly. May be a help from a professional or a psychologist. It does a lot. A support, affection and right approach is really important.
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@aureliah (24326)
• Kenya
15 Nov 17
Yes taking care of them is the only solution. Imagine being deserted yourself?
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@aureliah (24326)
• Kenya
15 Nov 17
Interesting. I have never lived with such a person but I believe it is not easy. If my life partner was to have such a condition, I would not leave them. I would pray that I get courage and have that sense of caring because it is what I would like them to do to me too.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
15 Nov 17
Proud of you. It takes courage to even think this. Very well said.
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@aureliah (24326)
• Kenya
15 Nov 17
@shubhu3 Thank you friend
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@Anjali30 (69)
21 Nov 17
I agree. Stigma needs to be broken down.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
Absolutely.
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21 Nov 17
@shubhu3 yeah.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
15 Nov 17
We should not leave such people. Family members should be in support to them.hope more supportive measures will be taken
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@aureliah (24326)
• Kenya
15 Nov 17
Why would you stop caring when they become sick? This is a mistake people do and I support your opinion
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
15 Nov 17
I agree. Family is the root. Family members should be supportive.