Is he made the right decision?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
November 21, 2017 6:18am CST
My Aunt from my Father's side was furious because of my 3rd Brother who made his decision living with someone who has 2 sons from other guys. Before that, we remind him that it is not okay living with someone who has kids already but he did not listen to us.
5 days ago, his partner gave birth to his second son, so in total of two sons of his own, and aside from that, he owns the two kids with his partner.
Now he has trouble how to fill the responsibility of having a big Family.
He said he didn't expect it will be an issue for him for taking the responsibility.
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10 responses
@BigTalpha (117)
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21 Nov 17
There's nothing wrong with being with someone who already has children. If he knew that she already had children and he chose to be with her he should have made sure that he could afford to take care of them before having other children. I don't see how they're having any problems I'm sure she's working being a single mother before she got with him and I'm sure she should be getting child support as well. It just sounds to me like he's trying to use that as an excuse to want to leave her. He needs to man up be a father and a husband boyfriend or fiance whichever he is to her because you're not going to tell me that she wasn't taking care of herself or her kids before she got with him.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Nov 17
As we know, she doesn't get any support from the Father of his two kids.
My 3rd Brother has a Family before choosing the woman with two kids already.
And that she has one daughter with his first partner. Do you think it is right? Leaving the first partner with a daughter to a woman with 2 kids already?
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Nov 17
@BigTalpha
Oh yes, but still he needs to stand firm for he is no longer a single guy. He is a Family guy now.
@BigTalpha (117)
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21 Nov 17
@JustBhem That depends on the circumstances of his previous relationship. We don't always know what's going on between them to make them leave each other.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
21 Nov 17
on what circumstances did they part ..depends on that. But i agree taking kids responsibility is really huge one we have to be financially sound to support them
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
21 Nov 17
he should shoulder all the responsibilities because he chose to.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
22 Nov 17
It may be hard but it's not fair of your family to judge the partner with two kids from another relationship. At the end of the day, "traditional" families are just a myth. Being married to 1 person for your entire life doesn't make everyone happy.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
22 Nov 17
So he has two kids of his own from his partner. That's really a problem. He has to work hard to raise all the children
