Borrowing A Special Shirt

@gibocam (343)
United States
November 23, 2017 5:59am CST
I have this shirt that I keep. I wear it during special ocassion only. Somebody needs a shirt like this and he wants to borrow this from me. I am very hesitant to let him borrow for it is special to me. I have several shirts before but I gave them away. I only kept this one that is special. Aside from that, I'm not a person who let anybody borrow things from me especially those things with special value. What would you think the best way that I can do for him?
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
23 Nov 17
Oh I don`t know about men but I don`t like others to borrow my used things it`s not because I don`t like to share but I don`t like to be blamed if something might not be right because of my washing conditioner
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• Germany
24 Nov 17
@gibocam Yes but I do let my friend borrows my shirts or dress if they really like it, if the conditioner is good for them or if I don`t use it so much I give it
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@gibocam (343)
• United States
23 Nov 17
That's one of the reason that I don't want to. I have one left so I take good care of it.
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@gibocam (343)
• United States
24 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 But he's not my close friend but a relative. And I'm not sure if he has this odor that's contagious. That's what I think.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
23 Nov 17
Don't make him borrow if you don't like it. That is better than letting him borrow your stuff which in fact makes you feel uncomfortable and sad. Only do what your heart desires.
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@gibocam (343)
• United States
23 Nov 17
Yes. But I don't have the courage to say it in front of him. That may disappoint him or to think that I'm kind of mean.
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• Philippines
24 Nov 17
@gibocam Then that's a big problem :(
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@gibocam (343)
• United States
24 Nov 17
@sw8sincere Yes. That keeps me from thinking straight.
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@crafty01 (480)
• Jamshedpur, India
25 Nov 17
You should make an attempt to make him understand that your are sentimental about your belongs.
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@gibocam (343)
• United States
26 Nov 17
Yes but it is different.
@crafty01 (480)
• Jamshedpur, India
27 Nov 17
@gibocam Well, we all have to choose our paths, some times others are bound to get disappointed!, thats how life works.
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
23 Nov 17
Shirt is awesome!..,
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@gibocam (343)
• United States
23 Nov 17
Yes, they do, but borrowing? That needs time to think.
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