Have I Not Done Enough??

I am so sorry this happened to you. It hurts when a friendship goes bad.

kinda same case with me, give her sometime if she understands you she will be back otherwise think that you have done good for person who is never your's.. Girl don't keep so much to your heart, it will only hurt you, let it go..enjoy your life and we are here for you dear..just leave the past..live in present..my friend

Misunderstandings really happen. Maybe give her some space and time to think about things before she thinks all the negative. Be sincere and hope she will be enlightened

I am sorry. I hope the relationship can be healed.

Well from my experience there is something that was missing from your relationship since you could not make up. I had a friend who always got miffed or shall we say her nose in the air about the silliest things. Then one day when we got into an argument I thought to myself wait a minute let me turn the tables. So I simply said that I would not tolerate her attitude anymore this is something she would have said to me not me to her I was always trying to smooth things over. Well she heard this and right away said to me how can I be so small minded and that our friendship mattered more. I told her just think about what I said would that not be what you would say to me in anger and that was when we looked at each other and laughed a long time and remained the closest of friends remembering to be very tolerant of each other.

Sometimes you just cannot change other persons' attitude.

Sometimes when you think it is a friendship isnot a friendship actually but beyond friendship that ais a relation which no one can define. It is love and more than love. It is always not compulsory that a love should be between a boy and a girl, it also doesnot mean its a third gender love but it is a great relation between two friends where the feeling of possession starts and one cannot bear it properly. It may be of that kind because you might have felt that pissing off her rude behaviour is your greatness to forgive her for what she is doing but instead she wants you to oppose her for her deeds such that she gets at least some one whom she can get angry with along with sharing her problems. The situations are not always what we think of and how we think most of the time we ourselves are failed to understand what the person on the other side is feeling.I have had the same experience many years before when I had a friend whom I felt was only my possession, she used to forgive my harsh attitude too which I felt was her carelessness towards me and make me more furious. Gradually I realized the situation and she too. I then slowly removed my feeling of possesion towards her and lead a very friendly relation with her as others do. she used to be more than a best friend to me but I think a friend always should be a friend we should not categorize any one as good, better or best friend.

I hope she will see it and make it up for you

I'm sorry you went through that. I hope it's just a temporary phase of misunderstanding and things will go well between you and your friend as it was before.

So very sorry you went through all of that @Alian123 Some people don't see the genuine kindness in people.

Hello, nice to meet you sometimes because of facts in real life people are angry each other because of real acting in life that;s why the friendship in on waves huge and small ones that make stronger friendship if in future things gone to be cleared in the course of time.

Honestly, people grow apart and begin to like different things and may even want to be around different people. She probably got mad at little things because she wanted you to be mad at her and end the friendship.You can't really change her mind on how she feels but you can let her know that you were upset by it and that you think its best if you both move on. It's gonna hurt right now to possibly lose a friends but you'll be a stronger person in the end.

good luck for your relationship QQ

It's her own internal struggle my friend...Has nothing to do with you really. Just with her own perception of the world.

I hope you two can reconcile.

How did the misunderstanding occur?

How long has it been since you have not been in contact with each other? Can you contact her and try and talk to her or will that not help?