My subordinate is a drunkard.

@sjvg1976 (41281)
Delhi, India
December 3, 2017 10:34pm CST
One of my subordinate seems to be a heavy drinker as he always finds some of the other way to drink. He hides it from his parents so don't go to home after drinking and stays with his friends at night and goes home in the morning when he drinks at night. This is bad . Many times he has asked me to accompany him but I don't do that. I think I should inform his parents about his habit so that he may leave but then I think why should I do that. As he is unmarried let him enjoy his life he will leave it once he will get married. What do you say?
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13 responses
Anna
@LadyDuck (471423)
• Switzerland
4 Dec 17
How old is this man? If he gets the habit, he will continue to drink even after he marries and he will make a woman unhappy. I would inform his parents.
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Arnel b. Abrquez
@Kingstoe (14)
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4 Dec 17
The people who continue drinking they feel lonely to there life . We should understand them and accept to there habit
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
4 Dec 17
He is just 30 years. He is going to get married in a year or so. May be then he will leave this drinking habit
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471423)
• Switzerland
4 Dec 17
@Kingstoe Accepting this kind of habit is nothing good. Those who drive drunk can kill people, they beat their wives. Sorry but I do not accept them at all.
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Tokz
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
4 Dec 17
I think your decision is right, anyway he is single and old enough to know the better things he should do for himself. it will cause some misunderstanding between you too when you tell it to his parents.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
4 Dec 17
That's the reason I haven't done it yet.
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prashu
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
4 Dec 17
It's better to stay off from it. It's his life.. good or bad he is responsible. This generation people don't take it ..the way it should be ...
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51965)
• Philippines
4 Dec 17
I would fire him on the spot, that won't sit well with me if I'm the boss. He should be responsible in his actions.
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139741)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Dec 17
If he gets married he might still drink.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 Dec 17
There's a commercial on TV here that says: Friends don't let friends drive drunk. My question to you would be - How would you feel if he were in an accident and killed and you didn't help him or say anything to his parents about his drinking? Just something to think about.
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lady Di
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
4 Dec 17
drinking should be done moderately.. and yes he should definitely inform his parents about it
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Dec 17
if i were you, i will tell his parents. if he is still unmarried, he should still be under his parents supervision.
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Xavier Bage
@franxav (13842)
• India
4 Dec 17
This person will ruin his life and the life of the girl he marries. He himself will fall in troubles. Better tell his parents soon and save him.
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Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
5 Dec 17
Ya your right!..
peachpurple
@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 17
Since he is single, let him be
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JOSEPHINE
@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
4 Dec 17
I think you should tell his parents so that they can find a way of helping him now before he starts drinking too much. By the time he gets married he might be worse.
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Rhonda S.
@misunderstood_zombie (8142)
• United States
4 Dec 17
This is your employee? Maybe you should tell him he will lose his job if he doesn't get help. It's really sad.
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