If women purse their lips when you check them out in the street is it bad body language for guys?
By Winterishere
@thedevilinme (4128)
Northampton, England
December 14, 2017 4:08pm CST
I need some female help here. I have noticed that now I am in my late 40s, when I admire pretty girls in the street by checking them out they purse their lips. I need to know if this is a bad thing, or not, so to know whether to stop looking? I wasn’t a bad looking lad in my 20s and 30s and some girls would look back, and one or two would smile, but now its purse lips most of the time and its confusing. I’m not a creepy middle aged guy or anything and have all my hair and it’s not that grey and I am athletic and so not like a fat, ugly salivating bald guy or anything.Help!
I suppose I'm wondering if the women are feeling uncomfortable that an older guy is admiring them or they are simply self conscious or it’s something else. In my mind I’m simply admiring an attractive woman and hope she feels that’s a good thing and so nothing but positive. I’m not one of those guys who checkout her rack and its eyes only to see if you catch them. Maybe I am getting a few grey hairs and look but don’t touch is now don’t look and don’t touch, which is really rather depressing.
The whole sexual abuse thing in the news and the subsequent thousands of women who bravely came forward has made me think about this more and how women are treated. I’m an English guy and would NEVER abuse or touch women inappropriately although involved in gentle flirtation and banter at work like any other guy. But I am genuinely thinking now that an older guy looking at a pretty younger girl in the street may actually make her feel uncomfortable. Women sometimes check me out but mostly look at my cute ass or groin area and so I kind of do now how it feels when men leer at girl’s boobs.
SO ladies, girls and womankind... what do you feel about older guys checking you out..?
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@BraveFart (242)
• Zimbabwe
14 Dec 17
These girls just aren’t interested with older men. Everyone has their own preference. Don’t mind them.
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@thedevilinme (4128)
• Northampton, England
15 Dec 17
so if you purse our lips thats negative?
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@BraveFart (242)
• Zimbabwe
15 Dec 17
@thedevilinme Presumed they don’t want to get kissed by you or was just trying to put on a poker face so you woulnd’t get offended. They’d catch your attention simply by looking at you for minutes, licked their lips not pursed them and maybe get your number if they want to get in contact but obviously younger women aged 20 and below like guys same as their age not older. Not all, but most.
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@thedevilinme (4128)
• Northampton, England
15 Dec 17
I dont stop but I hope looking at a younger woman is not hostile these days.