Fling or a serious relationship

@amadeo (111938)
United States
December 18, 2017 12:17pm CST
Good afternoon. When you met your husband or wife was it a fling or relationship? How can you tell if what you have is going to develop into a serious relationship, For me dating was a fling and not into relationship ... Was this a long term deal for you. Photo online.
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@much2say (55912)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Dec 17
Hubby and I worked at the same place when we met each other - we became good friends - but we were already dating someone else. We started talking often about the things going wrong in our relationships . . . and suddenly one day we decided we were actually better for each other. So over 30 years later, we are still together .
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@much2say that is so wonderful there.
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@JudyEv (341826)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Dec 17
I love your story. That's so nice.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Dec 17
@JudyEv thank you and good morning from here.
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@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Dec 17
When my husband and I started dating, it was pretty much the 3rd or 4 date, when we realized it was more than just a fling, we really thought we were meant to be together. We married a year and 2 months after our first date. We are coming upon, soon, being married 30 years.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@LeaPea2417thank you for sharing your story.
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@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Dec 17
@amadeo Your welcome.
@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
21 Dec 17
@Strawberry18 Yes, sometimes it can.
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
18 Dec 17
We met at a dancing place and kept having dates. A year later, he asked me to marry him. Said Yes and we have been together since then.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
19 Dec 17
@amadeo Thanks.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Dec 17
@marlina Good morning.Just coming on.Not sure what to write today
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@marlina wonderful there.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
19 Dec 17
I met my husband in the office where I worked. I was dating another guy, but in a few weeks I knew that my husband was the man of my life. We married after 6 month, this was 46 years ago.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Dec 17
@LadyDuck that is great there Anna
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@JudyEv (341826)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Dec 17
I guess maybe ours would have been called a fling. We split up at one stage for some months but then got back together again.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
18 Dec 17
Love at first site as soon as we met there was a connection. It was as though we had known each other all of our lives. Things moved along really quickly for us.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@Happpy2BeMe very nice.Thank you for sharing.
• India
19 Dec 17
I think friendship is first step towards love.
@jstory07 (139817)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Dec 17
I know with both of my husbands that it would lead to a great relationship. I was lucky to find love twice in my life time.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@jstory07 very nice there Judy
• Eugene, Oregon
20 Dec 17
Anne and I met online nearly ten years ago next April. She lived the other side of the Cascade mountains and drove the 100 miles to meet me one weekend. The affair soon turned serious and there were many trips back and forth for both of us, then, before winter came, she moved here to be with me.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
20 Dec 17
@JamesHxstatic WhewI bet you were glad that she did.That is a lot of miles there. I am sure the miles was love.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
20 Dec 17
@JamesHxstatic @amadeo.Have a good evening
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• Eugene, Oregon
20 Dec 17
@amadeo Truly!
@andriaperry (117138)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 Dec 17
It was a blind date, and a year later I married and a few years later divorced.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@andriaperry A blind date interesting.
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
19 Dec 17
I have had several flings that end up as more. That's not the case this time.
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@rina110383 (24492)
18 Dec 17
Never been married. Never been in a relationship that lasted for more than a year.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@rina110383 I see.Thank you
@kritis (628)
• India
19 Dec 17
Can't say anything..no experience at all..
@Abrown01 (11)
• United States
19 Dec 17
When my girlfriend and I met we had both gotten out of terrible relationships. We were just friends leaning on each other. Once we started really hanging out we realized we had alot in common and mutual feelings began to develop.
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19 Dec 17
Sometime when we're dating someone, we thought that it was fling, but as the time past, we thought that he/she is the one that we're looking for