December Blues

By Laly
@lalyvc (34)
Lima, Peru
December 23, 2017 5:21pm CST
Have you ever feel lonely or sad this time of the year without any explanation at all? This is happening to me right now. I know is great to see family, people feeling happy, Christmas songs everywhere I go, Christmas decorations and all, but there is some time in the day where I just feel like I'm alone in this world. Is this happening to you too?
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
24 Dec 17
Finding some time to be alone would be nice right now. Very rarely do I have time alone to rest my mind and spirit. I am also not feeling the "Christmas" spirit much this year. In fact, I have noticed it less and less each year since my youngest child became a young adult. It seems that without a young child in the house some of the magic is lost.
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@lalyvc (34)
• Lima, Peru
27 Dec 17
It tends to happen Davis. Actually I feel the same way, each year is not the same as it used to be. Glad to see December gone!
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@Scrapper88 (5983)
• United States
24 Dec 17
I can be in a big crowd and still feel lonely.
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@lalyvc (34)
• Lima, Peru
27 Dec 17
Yes Keith, it happens. Kind of feel the same this season!
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• United States
27 Dec 17
Right now I m blue, I have a lot going on in my life, family , sick, my pet of 18 years passed and I am feeling sad. going to take time for me. I am glad that Christmas is over, and behind me.
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• United States
28 Dec 17
@lalyvc Hopefully they do't come as fast next year
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@lalyvc (34)
• Lima, Peru
27 Dec 17
I feel the same way JellyBelly, glad to see this holiday over!
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
23 Dec 17
Called the holiday blues. Seems like everybody's into their own family. Outside looks dreary. No one on the street. You're just not connected. Best thing to do is look up your best friends and buddies who can have a good time or strike up a conversation with some people. They might be just as glad to have someone to shoot the bull with.
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@lalyvc (34)
• Lima, Peru
24 Dec 17
Thanks Danna! I didn't know there was actually a term for that!
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
24 Dec 17
Ya sometime!..
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• Kathmandu, Nepal
24 Dec 17
Well! To be straight to your question, Yes and No. I have so many friends on myLot that I enjoy being with them online. Yes, in fact I have no one at my place and am alone but I don't feel lonely. Oh why do you feel lonely even if you are with the family members? Do you miss someone special? I doubt on that! Otherwise what would be the reason behind it?
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• Kathmandu, Nepal
28 Dec 17
@lalyvc Oh! I think you have already solved your problems by now! I wish you a happy time! Thank you!
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@lalyvc (34)
• Lima, Peru
27 Dec 17
It is not that, In fact there are some family problems that got me in this Grinch mood :)
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
24 Dec 17
Welcome to myLot! I hope we can help you feel less lonely even if just a little bit this holiday season...
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@lalyvc (34)
• Lima, Peru
27 Dec 17
Thank you Sishy! It's definitely helping :)
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• Eugene, Oregon
27 Dec 17
It can be a melancholy season for many, even when you are not alone. I am always glad to see it gone.
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@lalyvc (34)
• Lima, Peru
27 Dec 17
It's true James. Now it comes new year!
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