What does Father Christmas/Santa Claus bring to your household?

@Fleura (30541)
United Kingdom
December 26, 2017 7:33am CST
In the week or two after Christmas, adults trying to be friendly often ask the girls ‘What did Father Christmas bring you?’ and the girls, trying to be polite, will tell them what they found in their stockings – usually little things like chocolates, bath bombs,a keyring, a small ornament, a small toy, even a packet of seeds or a pair of socks. This usually results in an awkward sort of pause where the adult is clearly thinking ‘Is that all you got for Christmas? Gosh your parents are mean!’ but doesn’t want to say it, and the children (at least if the adults are people they want to chat to) would like a chance to tell them about some of the other gifts they received from other people, but they don’t like to blurt it out without being asked. These awkward conversations were also a feature of the post-Christmas period for me when I was a child, because I also didn’t know quite what to say. To announce ‘But I got this that and the other from Auntie So-and-so and Mum and Dad and Uncle Whatsisname’ feels like bragging when they hadn’t asked about that. In our house, Father Christmas leaves assorted small gifts in the stockings laid out for him. All other gifts are from real people. Isn’t that what he is alleged to do for children around the world? Every story features Father Christmas filling stockings, as has been the case for centuries. If adults want to know ‘What did you get for Christmas?’ then why not simply ask that? All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2017.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Dec 17
That would be awkward. I've never been asked that. I was always asked what I got for Christmas. My stocking was usually filled with fruit and nuts. The gifts were under the tree from Santa.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
28 Dec 17
In our house the little things in the stockings are (and always have been) from Father Christmas but the other presents are from real family and friends.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Dec 17
@Fleura That sounds like a great tradition.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
26 Dec 17
This is what I was asked when I was a kid "what did you get for Christmas?" and I am glad about that.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
27 Dec 17
@Fleura You are right, it's not at all the same thing. I knew who brought the present when I was 5 years old. The nun in the kindergarten told us, because she judged we had to appreciate the real meaning of Christmas. My father was furious, I have always been a "skeptical kid", I doubt already. My younger brother believed until he was 10, I finally decided to tell him.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
26 Dec 17
Far more sensible. Here people often seem to use 'What did Father Christmas bring you?' as a euphemism for 'What Christmas presents did you get?' which is not the same thing at all.
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
30 Jan 18
Not an issue at my house, no kids. When the wife's great niece and great nephew lived in town, we'd say that Santa had left gifts at our house by mistake, but they live in Kansas now. When I was growing up, we had gifts from the family but always a couple of things under the tree from Santa.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
26 Dec 17
I see how confusing such questions will be for the children.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
26 Dec 17
Yes I was always confused by it - confused by the confused expression on their faces when I had answered the question they asked!
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
26 Dec 17
@Fleura It is then the adult's turn to be confused.
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@1creekgirl (41744)
• United States
26 Dec 17
Here it's like when people ask kids, "Well, what did Santa bring you for Christmas?" That doesn't include other gifts they got from real people.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
26 Dec 17
No it doesn't include other people's gifts - but that seems to be what they are really asking about which is just weird. We are off to visit grandparents later (my partner's parents) - I bet they do the same - I'll have to ask them why!
• Philippines
26 Dec 17
when i was a kid i used to hang socks outside our house, but every year sad to say that i cannot find any items (chocolates, small gifts) inside it. For now, that i have 2 kids, i'd rather said to them that be good girl/boy everyday so that God will instruct Santa Claus to bring your gifts during Christmas. and by that any instructions especially during the month of December they both followed that they are afraid that they cannot received gifts from santa.
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