Sleeping in the Park

Asleep in City Park
@bagarad (14283)
Paso Robles, California
January 17, 2018 2:48am CST
As I was taking photographs of our downtown city park for a blog post I never seem to actually have time to write, I noticed this man napping in the park. I could not help but wonder if he was homeless, although I didn't see the usual backpack beside him. Ot maybe he's using it as a pillow, since his head is on something red. The park is right across from the library, and a lot of homeless people hang out at the library. So it's likely this man is homeless. On the other hand, he might be just napping in the park. What do you think? Is he homeless or just taking a nap in the afternoon. Have you ever napped in a park? Do you ever see people sleeping in your parks? Do you have a lot of homeless people in your city or town? What does your town do to help the homeless?
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Jan 18
It's hard to tell if he is or not. I've seen people sleeping in the park, but they weren't homeless, it was just a time of relaxation for them as they usually either had a blanket they laid on or a lounge chair they brought with them. We have a couple homeless shelters. They help people find work.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
One of the churches in the next town has an excellent homeless shelter that helps people get back on their feet.
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Jan 18
@bagarad That's great!
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Jan 18
@bagarad That's probably why it works.
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@DaddyEvil (137464)
• United States
17 Jan 18
I can't make up my mind whether that is a rolled up blanket he is using for a pillow or a backpack. He looks to me like he fell asleep in the shade but the sun has moved to put him directly in the sunlight. I hope he doesn't sunburn! Yes, I've taken naps in one of the parks around here. But if you are sleeping for more than an hour or so, the police will wake you up and tell you to head home to sleep. It is really rare that I ever see anyone sleeping in the parks here. (I usually stay in my car and put the seat down if I am tired. The police don't bother you if you're in a vehicle.) I live in a small city in Missouri. I can only think of a few times that I've seen homeless people here and they are usually passing through. ( I once was leaving work at Walmart when a homeless man ask me for some money. I told him that Walmart was hiring if he needed money, planning on offering to buy him some food after telling him that. Without pausing a beat, he told me he'd NEVER work at a place like Walmart! (He was quite emphatic about it, too!) I looked at him for a minute, glancing down at my Walmart uniform, and said, "You would ask a person who works at Walmart for money, though." He got angry and started cussing at me. I pulled my phone out and called security in Walmart and told them a homeless man was outside the doors cussing at me. Security came out and called the police. He was arrested and taken to jail.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
17 Jan 18
Some people are homeless because of mental problems, and you may have encountered one of them. Some choose to be homeless. I feel very sorry for those who are homeless through not fault of their own. It could happen to anyone who gets overwhelmed with medical bills or loses a job and can't find another.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
17 Jan 18
@DaddyEvil We may not really disagree. I understand how you feel and why.
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@DaddyEvil (137464)
• United States
17 Jan 18
@bagarad No, I checked with the police station the next day. There was nothing wrong with that guy besides and unwillingness to work. The police department did call his hometown police to inquire. I agree that many homeless may not be to blame for their situation. I feel sorry for them and will offer to buy them a meal. I WON'T give them money, though. I am sorry if we disagree in this, but I am barely making it with my daughter already. Walmart pays enough for one person to live on their hourly wage. (My daughter is agoraphobic. She doesn't leave our house unless she can't see anything around her. Most of the time, she won't even come out of her bedroom.) I've helped others in the past only to be crapped on once they are on their feet. I've about used up all my goodwill for the homeless. (shake my head!)
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@yugocean (9963)
• India
18 Jan 18
I did rest in park sometimes but never slept there. But yes people sleep a lot in the park.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
19 Jan 18
Many people nap in the parks here.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
19 Jan 18
@yugocean Of course they do. Parks are there to relax in.
@yugocean (9963)
• India
19 Jan 18
@bagarad Normal people too can do that when they go out to relax.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
17 Jan 18
During the day the homeless in our community wander.... I have napped in the park....not recently....it's winter and I haven't even gone to the park.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
It is actually warm enough here on some days now to sleep in the park during the day, but I would imagine Canada is much colder than the coast of California.
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
19 Jan 18
@Morleyhunt I guess that would be way too cold for sleeping.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
18 Jan 18
@bagarad yesterday was a blustery day. The high was a mere -6°C, not warm enough to sleep in the park.
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@JudyEv (341752)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jan 18
We don't see a lot - or indeed any - homeless people in our town. It's probably not big enough to support them or perhaps they get chased away.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
19 Jan 18
@JudyEv The later makes me very sad. This should not happen in America.
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• United States
17 Jan 18
It's hard to tell. It could be he's catching a nap before catching a bus to Atascadero. I know Paso needs to do more for our homeless. There aren't enough low cost rentals for people with limited funds. I feel terrible for the homeless, especially when I see the number of empty and abandoned buildings that could be repurposed....
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• United States
17 Jan 18
@bagarad I kinda live in San Luis County. I live up at Nacimiento Lake. I've lived at the lake for 33 years. Before that I lived in Pismo Beach (remember what TV program made Pismo famous?) and before that Los Osos. It is long over due that people start reaching out and helping others instead of either saying "they're not my problem" or "I have my own problems". Once they reach out and help the first person they find they want to do more! I can speak from experience. On October second of 2017 I became one of the many homeless. My home burned down from a freak electrical problem through the power company. I was very lucky as a wonderful man, my boyfriend, took me in. That alone is an interesting story...but I don't live a dull life. Anyhow, somehow through the shock and pain I still have reached out to help those in need. It has been a mantra throughout my life. What people don't realize is help can be as simple as a hug to a few dollars for a hot meal to treating a Highway Patrolman to a cup of Starbucks coffee. It's being there and NOT focusing on yourself. It's giving of yourself to help that person who is cold and hungry sleeping in the park.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
19 Jan 18
@BearArtistLady CAn't come tomorrow because we have to go to Costco. It's our only day. I have sent a PM with better contact information. I have two Elnas, but both need tune-ups before they will work again. My mom and I both bought one on the same day about forty years ago, and now I have hers, too, and hardly sew. I wonder if I have anything you could use to make your bears? I have so much stuff around here I don't use and never will that I'm trying to clear out of here. I'd love to give it to someone who could use it. I'm sorry you have had so many hard things come into your life at once.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
19 Jan 18
It would be hard to know if he is just sleeping or homeless unless you knew his situation, as I have seen people sleep in the park taking a nap that were not homeless, but a lot of people around here you can tell are the homeless ones due to their looks a lot of times. Unfortunately around here, there are a lot of Homeless, and the population actually is continuing to grow as the cost of living continues to rise. Even a minimum wage job does not pay enough in order to get an apartment anymore so it is a 50/50 chance of being able to survive around here. It is almost impossible to not struggle anymore unless you get lucky to have a job like at Boeing.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
20 Jan 18
It is hard to tell. And many people do have to struggle to find a decent job these days. I'm hoping with the improvement in the economy more good jobs will become available.
@shaggin (72183)
• United States
17 Jan 18
Hard to tell if this one is homeless although I hope not. I hope he was a student laying there studying enjoying the sunshine and fell asleep.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
I wasn't close enough to get a really good look at him.
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
17 Jan 18
I have never napped inn a park butwe also have a large homeless population who does in the summer.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
I don't like trying to sleep anywhere in public unless I'm with a friend who stays awake. But I can't sleep on the ground anyway anymore. I can't get up once I'm down.
@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Jan 18
He might just be taking a nap and nothing else.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
That's always possible.
@Plethos (13581)
• United States
17 Jan 18
i think hes napping. theres a few homeless in my town. i dont know what my towns official stand is on the homeless, but i get the feeling that they dont have a policy.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
I think our cities could be more friendly about letting the homeless sleep on public property, like parks, as long as they don't bother others or commit crimes. Unfortunately, too many do disturb others and have worn out their welcome, so now they don't let people in the parks after dark.
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• United States
17 Jan 18
Over in Virginia, I have not seen much of that. We have the Salvation Army and Union Mission nearby but you can see them on the streets and traffic lights. Some of them posting signs.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
A lot post signs here, too. I've been a skeptic since I saw one of those who used to stand on crutches by the entrance to a parking lot not far from my home with a sign. I was driving home when he finished his "shift" for the day, and I passed him walking down the street carrying his crutches.
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@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Jan 18
We have a very big park in our town and most people go here to rest. some after tarmacking looking for manual jobs and are tired they come to the park to rest. But most of the time one has to be careful since thieves come to hide themselves here also.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
17 Jan 18
I suppose it would be easy for thieves to rob anyone who was really sleeping.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 Jan 18
@nangayo Wow! I'd never heard that before. The homeless here are often organized and take turns begging in shifts at different locations and watch out for each other.
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@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Jan 18
@bagarad You have to sleep with your shoes under your head. They normally remove the shoes from the leg and you find yourself without shoes.
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