Do you have friends/family who talk but don't listen? How do you deal with them?

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I was engaged in a Facebook "conversation" this morning with someone I've known since 4th grade. Her personality hasn't changed much in close to half a Century. She talks of her woes, of how busy she is, of how successful her (in College) daughter is, but never asks about me or what I'm doing. If I put out a hook to ask about me ("we had a gig last night"; "my lower back still hurts"; "I feel more relaxed since I left my afternoon job"), she doesn't bite. I have some friends here in California who are similar. Sometimes, as they're talking away on the phone, I'll start thinking about how many minutes I spent talking, versus how many minutes they spent talking, in a 20 minute conversation. It's often something like 18 to 2. Don't worry. Most of my friends and family are not like this. But, having just been involved in such a "conversation," I thought I'd write about it, perhaps to vent a bit. Do you have people in your life who are like this? Do you ever "give them a taste of their own medicine" and start talking non-stop about yourself, just to bait them? I rarely do, but I have now and then. It doesn't really work. I'll attach one of my favorite CSN songs. It becomes an ear-worm whenever I think about this subject. I hope you enjoy it. It's beautiful.