Are you closer to your mom or dad?

@Icydoll (36717)
India
January 25, 2018 10:13am CST
Friends Let's move into some discussion about your family and your relation with your parents. Parents are support for us and strength, protective. For me I am very close with my parents but never share some things with them. Yeah they are my guide and support in all my tough situations.yeah there will be things that we share with our friends that we can't share with parents.my dad call me with sweet nickname sweety,Dolly Are you closer to your mom or dad?.do you share everything with them ?.do you got any nicknames from them.?.share with me friends :)
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@LeaPea2417 (37379)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Jan 18
It is about equal. I get along with them both equally.
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@ptrikha_2 (47083)
• India
25 Jan 18
@LeaPea2417 that is great to know!
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@LeaPea2417 (37379)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Jan 18
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jan 18
@LeaPea2417 that's nice to know friend .then are they friendly enough that you share everything without hiding anything.?what's your nickname kept by your parents?
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
25 Jan 18
My Mom and I were closer @Icydoll . My Dad was sexually abusive and violent.
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@ptrikha_2 (47083)
• India
25 Jan 18
@nanette64 that must have been very tough for you.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jan 18
@nanette64 that's cool friend about your mom .some people are there like your father.stay blessed with your mom love and care.take care of your mom friend :).do you share everything with her?and what's your nickname kept by your mom?
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
25 Jan 18
@Icydoll My Mom passed away in 2007 and I miss her everyday. She use to call me Stoneyboney because I was 5'11" tall and weighed 130 pounds.
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@irishidid (8687)
• United States
25 Jan 18
I grew up without a father and my mother wasn't the greatest of moms so I wasn't close to any parent.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jan 18
@irishidid that's sad to know.where did you grew up ?and do you have any siblings?.
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@irishidid (8687)
• United States
25 Jan 18
@Icydoll It's a strange story. I was adopted and have siblings from my adoptive family plus a load of half brothers and sisters from my biological family.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jan 18
@irishidid are you happy with adopted family.how affectionate are they?.
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• United States
25 Jan 18
I’m closer to my mom. I do get along with both though.
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• United States
26 Jan 18
@Icydoll No nick name really just my name =) Sometimes they confuse with my sisters name. Hmm I don't share everything but I do share a good amount.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jan 18
@infatuatedbby that's cool friend :).yeah we can be close with both.but to ask something to dad I go to mom and tell her to inform dad hehe.So do you share everything with them..are they very friendly enough to share ?. what's your nickname kept by your parents?
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@infatuatedbby that's nice to know about you Friend :).thank you for sharing with me :).stay blessed
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• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Jan 18
I'm closest to my Heavenly Father which is what truly matters. =) I'm no longer a child so being close to my earthly parents has no bearing in my life.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jan 18
@LovingMyBabies that's obsoletely right friend.God give us parents as gift .one should always thank God for that.sad part about your parents.hope you have good life ahead.keep faith in God .May God bless you :) stay blessed .
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@Dorag956 (268)
25 Jan 18
Well me personally I am closer to my dad that is because my dad is not so judgemental like my mom. And he is very open minded when you talk to him about your problems. He is also always about making sure your happy how your living and with who you love. So thats why im a little closer to him. I am a daddys girl always will be. As for my mom she can be a handful but I love her because all things set aside she will be there for me as well when things get hard in my life even though she can be a judgy person. But all things said I love them both they mean the world to me because at the end of the day they did everything to provide for me and my siblings I am one out of 7 me being the oldest of them all. And I have no nickname for my dad I just call him dad and my mom I call her my minion
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@ptrikha_2 (47083)
• India
25 Jan 18
Well it is said that one cannot ever pay the debt of the care and love given by Good parents, and your example illustrates that.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jan 18
@Dorag956 that's cool to know about your family friend :).glad your father is very friendly enough with open minded to share everything . that's cool you have siblings .are they friendly with you?.minion is nice nickname What's your nickname kept by your father to you ?
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@Dorag956 (268)
25 Jan 18
@Icydoll yeah I love him alot well both of them :) and they could be but the way my parents are raising them they dont know the value of a hardworking dollar sadly. They are turning rude and spoiled. Yeah I gave it to her since she is kind of short. and she calls me doritios and so does my dad sometimes.
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
25 Jan 18
Both are about equal for me.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@maezee that's cool to know friend..glad you are close to both of them.do you share everything with them?do you got any nicknames from them?
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
25 Jan 18
I am close to my father .
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 that's nice friend:)do you share everything with him without hiding anything?.how about your kids.?close with you or with your wife?
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
26 Jan 18
I'm very close to my mother. I'm not that close to my father and we don't talk a lot. He is not so sweet to me like my mother who always hugs me when I'm a little kid
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@averygirl72 that's awesome friend .yeah one can't get that affectionate hug from anyone.do you share everything with her without hiding anything?.do you got any nicknames kept by her?
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
25 Jan 18
My dad isn't really in my life, I see him maybe once a year if that so I'm closer to my mom. I share most things with her but not everything
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@skydream that's nice you are close to your mom.yeah there are some things we can't share with them .do you got any nicknames kept by your parents to you?
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
26 Jan 18
I'm close with both my father and mother... they used to call me as teeka..which they got from the song " eena Meena teeka"...he he
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
26 Jan 18
@Icydoll not everything ...but the things which I can share, I'll definitely share with them. I'll share more things with my mom than with dad.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@Teekaaa that's nice dear :).how about your brother..is he friendly with you?
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@Teekaaa hey that's awesome dear :).I love your nickname too.eena meena teeka thats a nice song.thats might be your family favourite song so they kept it to you.so do you share everything with them?.
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@fly802 (1383)
26 Jan 18
I am always afraid of my dad.I always tried to be close to my mom and try to share everything with her.But it doesn`t happen.Because whatever I said to mom she shared that with my dad.
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@fly802 (1383)
27 Jan 18
@IcydollNo, I don`t have any nickname.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Jan 18
@fly802 that's ok..thank you for sharing about your family ..have nice time friend :)
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@fly802 you are same like me .I'm bit afraid of my dad.do you have any nicknames kept by your parents?.
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@dya80dya (36774)
25 Jan 18
I'm closer to my mom. My dad is distant. And sometimes he is very judgemental.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@dya80dya that's k.thank you for sharing
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@dya80dya yeah some father's are judgemental sometimes that's too good for our career though.thats nice you are close to your mom. Do you have nickname kept by your parents?
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@dya80dya (36774)
26 Jan 18
@Icydoll I don't have a nickname.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 18
My mom is the one I am the closest. My father he errr I never knew him as a kid he left my mom before I was born. I saw him the 1st time at 16. Well I love my dad thou he is funny. But he hates me so I'll pick my mom. I'm closer to her. Unfortunately she is not.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@BabeSays why he hates you ?.hmm what about your chidren?.how old ?.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@BabeSays mmm ok I can understand your situation .don't feel bad that you didn't get love of your father.be lucky you got good husband who cares you more..stay blessed dear friend :).thanks for sharing with me
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
26 Jan 18
@Icydoll I don't know the reason but he said he hates me. Maybe my mother knows the answer but she wouldn't tell me. And I have no kids. Btw my father was already married and fooled my mother and marry her. He already has 5 kids when he married my mom.
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@ptrikha_2 (47083)
• India
25 Jan 18
Well, my mother is no more. I was closest to her. Apart from being loving and caring, when we started to grow up, she was also a dear friend and guided us in many ways. There are good memories with my father too. But then fathers do tend to keep a distance with some exceptions and a father-child relationship cannot be compared to a Mother-child relationship.
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@ptrikha_2 (47083)
• India
27 Jan 18
@Icydoll Well not many ... may be some words we use in Hindi language like Pidduram(The little one) and of course her love was there even when she herself used to be unwell.
@allknowing (137781)
• India
26 Jan 18
I was just ten when I lost my father and yes we were all close to him as he never scolded us but referred the matter to mother (lol) Mother had responsibilities and so could not afford to mollycoddle us.
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@allknowing (137781)
• India
26 Jan 18
@Icydoll Yes. But I do not want to say it here (lol)
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@allknowing haha that's okay.i can understand.thanks for sharing about your family ..glad to know ..:)
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@allknowing sad that you lost him.in my case my mother only refers matter to dad .any nicknames kept by your parents to you?
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Jan 18
I was always closer to my mother although both have passed on now.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Jan 18
@Icydoll No, no nicknames but she always called my Judith and not Judy.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@JudyEv that's cool to know about you friend.do you any sweet nicknames kept by your mom?
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@JudyEv that's cool to know my friend.we get lovely feeling when our parents call like that :).thank you for sharing friend..stay blessed
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
27 Jan 18
As a little girl, I tried to be close with my mother. But, as I grew up my father and I could talk about almost anything. He use to help me with my homework. Yes, my father called me 'Dolly' at times, but it never became a nickname.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
27 Jan 18
@Icydoll You're welcome. Both my parents are gone now and I really miss them:(
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Jan 18
@kobesbuddy that's nice to know friend.glad you have good bonding with both of your parents :).Dolly is nice lovely name to call with.thats nice your father is very friendly enough with you.thank you for sharing about your family friend :)
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Jan 18
@kobesbuddy yeah I can understand your feeling friend.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
26 Jan 18
When my mom was alive it was closer to her.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
@Gita17112016 that's nice friend.its sad part she wasn't there,do you have any nicknames kept by your mom to you?
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• Trinidad And Tobago
27 Jan 18
@Icydoll No, never had nicknames. And our relationship was more reverse. I was the mother figure and i protected her. She was a very nice person but too trusting.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Jan 18
@Gita17112016 that's awesome friend:).glad you taking care of her like mother :).stay blessed Friend.thank you so much for sharing :)
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
28 Jan 18
My mummy
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
28 Jan 18
@Icydoll ya she use to call me "nanu"
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
28 Jan 18
That's cool to know...any nicknames?
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
28 Jan 18
@mohit459 that's cute nickname
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