Should I Go Back?
By Mari24
@Maria24 (2661)
United States
January 29, 2018 4:18pm CST
I moved to this city because my family told me they wanted to know them and two of my aunts said they where going to take care of my babies.
Long time ago when I was 15 I uesd to take care of my little cousins. They were 4. So now that I'm here I applied for a job and by the next day they called me.
So I called both of them and told them that I already had the interview.
They told me they just couldn't take care of them.
I instisted but they said no. Now I think to go back because here I'm not doing anything.
Is it bad luck or I can't trust anybody?
I had a good job, a car, and over here I don't even have a car.
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9 responses
@KeaonaM (6)
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30 Jan 18
Hey, do what YOU have to do! Its hard when you have no help. Bring them babies with you, sit then down while your at your interview and tell the interviewer this is my life right now. I need this job. Once you rack that money the first two weeks ( that will be the hardest) then bomb you got a babysitter.
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@BearArtistLady (6037)
• United States
29 Jan 18
It isn't that you can't trust anybody, its simply the fact that it is easy to promise something but they make the promise without thinking that they will be expected to follow through. The other point is that there is jealousy involved. You had managed to get into a position where you were making money and were able to afford things they couldn't. Accepting someone else's success when you're struggling is very hard to do, and the person will do what it takes to spoil that success.
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@Maria24 (2661)
• United States
29 Jan 18
@BearArtistLady I was really thinking that way because over there I had everything. I do believe there's jealously. Now I'm stuck over here but I'm going to get up.
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
30 Jan 18
Oh wow. So sorry.
Wish people didnt promise things they cant keep.
@thislittlepennyearns (62089)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
29 Jan 18
You better find someone to watch them while you have an interview. You can have all those things in the new town it'll just take time
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@stapllotik (1933)
• India
30 Jan 18
How can you leave the babies when they need you the most ? Look for a solution where your babies get your attention !
@JSAph8888 (949)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
Do what is good for you and also for your family. You mean you have a good career and a car in your province? But when you moved to a city, you left your car in your province, right?
@JSAph8888 (949)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
@Maria24
So, why did you moved to a city? Better career or better salary? If you are content in your life in that province, I guess, you don't need to leave your province and encounter a not-so-good experience.
@Maria24 (2661)
• United States
30 Jan 18
@JSAph8888 I was pregnant of my second babie and I took it as an opportunity. Because they said they wanted to take care of them. Even my dad said he didn't drink anymore so I was I guess more bunerable.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
1 Feb 18
Why did you leave where you lived before? If it is better for you and when you work have someone to watch your kids then maybe it is best to go back there.
