When should we say it's over in a relationship?
By Kat
@trench101 (13)
13 responses
@trench101 (13)
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30 Jan 18
Thanks. Just hard to draw the line especially when the relationship is already more than a decade. Sometimes I wonder if it's just too much familiarity. I feel like because both know each other well sometimes there is no more filter on what to say and do.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
30 Jan 18
@trench101 ya sometime this happens... But I think if there is misunderstandings they must be cleared ASAP, and it's my personal advice....as misunderstanding and Ego are the breaking points
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@trench101 (13)
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30 Jan 18
@mohit459 agree on the breaking points. Thank you for taking the time.
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@JSAph8888 (949)
• Philippines
31 Jan 18
Hello! First of all, welcome to mylot. I think, when you feel that your partner is starting to be cold towards you.
@trench101 (13)
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31 Jan 18
Yep. But they say one should understand for it is the depression talking not the partner when one say's something not nice. Not easy.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
2 Feb 18
Never marry or date for Money. Big mistake. When you realize there is nothing there time to move on. Never try and make someone believe elsewise
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
2 Feb 18
when you can't stand to even look at them in the same room anymore..
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
1 Feb 18
When to call it quits in a relatlionship is when you are no longer getting something out of it. If you both feel it is time to say goodbye then do so.
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
31 Jan 18
Do not give up just because there is a lack of trust and whatnot. A relationship is not a lottery. You do not just stumble upon a great relationship. It’s something that you build over time. It’s not jealousy or insecurity that usually ends a relationship.* It’s the lack of willingness by both parties to work together on their shortcomings. Welcome to mylot
@trench101 (13)
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31 Jan 18
Appreciate it. Yeah I think you are right lack of willingness because both parties are now tired especially if this we are talking about a long term relationship.
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@agneswilson16 (8)
• Nairobi, Kenya
31 Jan 18
personally i would say when experiencing verbal abuse, such as frequent anger, rage, blame, sarcasm, criticism, judgments, threats and other abusive means of undermining and controlling, it may be time to leave
@trench101 (13)
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31 Jan 18
Sounds fair. What if the partner has depression, what's your take on quitting when one is on this state?
