I'm happiest single...

Good advice Tacia. I'm single and happy. I wouldn't allow myself to lose sleep over anyone. Cheaters will eventually be caught; that's my philosophy. I do my best to be faithful and loyal.

That's the right thinking. Never settle for anybody not worth wasting your time on. I have met people who were desperate to have a boyfriend and when they did they settled for a not so good one and ended up broken hearted. I think we have to be wise when entering into a relationship.

I've been married for 35 years. You shouldn't get married unless you really feel comfortable in your relationship and have great communications together.

Right. I'm single-and-... not "happy," but not "looking" either. Partly because I'm 'believing my wife-to-be will find me anyway' (I asked my godfather 'How he & my godmother got married,' he just replied, "She asked me, and I said 'Yes!'" Oh, maybe he took her out on lotsa dates and they spent time together until he 'wore her down'; but he didn't tell me any of that!) But mostly 'I'm not looking' because my Traumatic-Brain-Injury make me unable to hold a job, which I would need to have to be able to get anywhere (in this automobile-salesperson-designed town, where--rather than 'distributing the places you need to go evenly throughout the neighborhoods'--the locate 'all the stores' and 'all the shopping' and 'all the residences' etc. in different 'areas' ) Anyway; the way I see it, a married-couple is 'a team'---sometimes you're the star, but sometimes (probably more-often) you're supporting someone else as the star ... and not even "for your own good."

Yeah I've been single most of the time now. Though sometimes I feel the need of having a companion but then people change. It's rare people get to have a happily ever after. Though it's normal couples fight but its the hard times that test the relationship. When I see couples get cheated on and stripped of their hard earned money and their custody of their children, makes me think twice about marriage.

People definitely will come into your life when you least expect it! I've learned that. I used to think the same way. I had to deal with a lot of cheaters, and figured being alone can help me not have to worry about that. Which it did..but I at times got lonely. I waited for love though, if it was meant to be than it would come. For me it did. Anyone who cheats is not worth anyones sadness. NEXT!!

Glad to know that you are strong enough to forget the bad things in life. It is not easy to forgive a person who cheats after getting high trust. I have seen the ordeals in a friend who was happy married and later realized the cheating story. It is really horrible to get cheated with a person to whom give love and trust the most.

I am 63 and have a history of choosing the wrong men. I'm now happily single with no plans to get involved ever again. It would probably take a million dollars worth of therapy to find out why I make the choices I do so rather than throw good money away I'll be happy by myself. My older sister is the same way. I have always thought that if you need someone to complete you, you have a lot of work to do. At this point in my life I am complete by myself and I consider that a great accomplishment!

Right now, I am also single and pretty happy. Being alone does also have it's advantages as I can go to sleep when I want and get up when I want.

I am married. Sometimes my mind travels back to the period when I was still single. I am very sorry I should have done something then. Now , I just feel if I could go back to fix it up.

Sometimes, I really enjoy the single life.