The unromantic side of being a parent

@Fleura (30399)
United Kingdom
February 6, 2018 4:10am CST
We just received a message from Little One’s school saying that cases of threadworms have been identified among some children. We are asked to check our children and if found, the entire household must be treated. Great! Two or three times over the last couple of weeks Little One has complained of an itchy bottom, but this never crossed my mind; now I realise it could be a possible cause. Unfortunately we need to find out, and I can imagine she won’t be too keen to cooperate! Apparently you can see threadworms as fine white threads in poo, or else they can sometimes be seen emerging from the anus at night-time. So which of us is going to fish poo out of the toilet and dissect it to look for worms? And who is going to try and remove Little One’s pyjamas while she’s asleep and shine a torch up her bum? My partner has just booked a flight to India for work; he swears this is a coincidence…. I thought a nice picture of flowers was better than the alternative… All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2018.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
6 Feb 18
Is there no way to get a stool test at a clinic? It's much better than poking through poop...
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
Oh I don't know, never thought of that!
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@Moiyah (85)
• Philippines
6 Feb 18
I think it is possible to have stool sample then go to clinic and hand them the sample to test it.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
Threadworms were quite common when I was a child, but I'm surprised that they haven't been eliminated as knowledge of hygiene is much better nowadays.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 18
@Fleura Yes you are right, there are still so many ways this sort of thing can spread.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 18
@jaboUK I have a book called 'Modern School Hygiene' (from the 1930s) which was my Mum's when she studied domestic science - before antibiotics and the NHS of course. Things have changed, but then some things which we thought were firmly in the past like scarlet fever and rickets, are making a comeback.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
I guess you only need one to get through and then they start to spread again. Knowledge of hygiene is good as you say, but even though everybody knows they need to wash their hands thoroughly with soap all over, fronts and backs and between the fingers, every time they use the toilet, before eating, and after any contact with an animal, most do not do that. How many times have you seen someone in a public toilet just give their hands a quick rinse? Or seen someone pet a dog then eat a biscuit?
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@allknowing (136446)
• India
6 Feb 18
Don't you deworm your kids regularly atleast once a year as a routine?
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@shaggin (72135)
• United States
7 Feb 18
I don't know about there but I know that doesn't happen here in the US routinely. My kids nor I have ever had a dewormer.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
@shaggin @allknowing no, it is not at all usual to de-worm children (or adults), only pets or other domestic animals.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
6 Feb 18
This is a weird post here.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
6 Feb 18
@Fleura I see.Oh!well to each its own I guess
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
Is it? This is just everyday life!
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
6 Feb 18
Yup, that happened to us as kids too @Fleura . And yes Dad was the one to use the flashlight.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
Did he remind you of it when you were grown up?
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
6 Feb 18
@Fleura Oh heck yeah. He thought it was funny.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
@nanette64 Eventually the situation gets reversed...
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Feb 18
Those worms can be treated with medication, in about five days. It's better to treat your daughter, than to let these worms multiply inside of her.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
6 Feb 18
Agreed. Worms are parasites.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Feb 18
@mydanods Yes, the multiply quickly.
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@GardenGerty (160674)
• United States
7 Feb 18
At least you have not lost your sense of humor. My family never had worms, but I did some daycare and it happened.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
Sense of humour is a seriously underrated attribute of a good parent, I think!
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Feb 18
The itching is very horrible and children shows much uncomfortable. Iit should treated urgently. You don't want to examine this much if the child complain about the itching.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
7 Feb 18
@Fleura Please do the needful when she complaints first time itself. We have to give much importance in the beginning itself.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
She only complained three or four times in the last month or so, that's why I didn't take it very seriously.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
@Sreekala Thanks, I will pay more attention from now on!
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
6 Feb 18
You would have to have it diagnosed and identified as quickly as possible, thread worms could quickly spread to other organs especially the lungs, it's a serious parasitic infestation
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
Oh dear, I will get on the case!
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
6 Feb 18
I treat myself for worms, whether I suspect I have any or not every six months. Just did one last December.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
7 Feb 18
Ah, I am so happy that I'm not a parent! Have fun with the poo!
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
You have to have a sense of humour for sure. But I have done worse things, caring for animals is no different.
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8 Feb 18
@Fleura This is true. My cats are my babies and they do bring their own frustrations and worries.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
9 Feb 18
I would probably buy a bow or strainer from the dollar store you could put under the toilet seat to collect her poo and take it to the doc for analysis. Doesn't sound fun
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
9 Feb 18
That's a good idea! At the moment I'm waiting to see if there are any reports of itching - and so far, nothing.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
9 Feb 18
@Fleura Well thats good, I hope there is nothing there
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
6 Feb 18
Could you just treat the entire household anyway? If I recall, it's a tablet that you take that kills off the parasites.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
I guess, but she is the only one that has complained of itching, and that was only a few times.
@Moiyah (85)
• Philippines
6 Feb 18
Sorry to hear that. But if your little one's confirmed of having a thrradworms. Then it should be treated right away. I understand your situation but being a parent commensurate patience and sacrifice. Nice picture though..
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
It's all worth it right?
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@Moiyah (85)
• Philippines
6 Feb 18
@Fleura yes it is. You'll get through this.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
7 Feb 18
It's better to give your kid medicines of killing thread worms as these are very common and can be easily cured by the medicines.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
It's not usual to regularly give children anti-worming medication here, I guess that contributes to the rise of resistant strains.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
7 Feb 18
That's a tough job to do looking for threadworms in the poop?
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
Never tried to do it before. I think I'll wait and see if she complains of itching again.
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
6 Feb 18
Haha. That's reminds me of my sister who ran from my mom just to escape to take capsule against worm. I thought you can check that through laboratory.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
I will look into it, thanks.
@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Feb 18
Haha. A trip to India? Sounds a bit suss.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 18
To be fair, he has discussed it before today. Just funny that he had just booked when the message came through!
@redurnet (1798)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
That sounds horrible. Isn't there just a medication that you can take straight away just in case instead of having to check.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 18
I suppose we could, I'm just reluctant to dose everyone with something that's completely unnecessary.
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@WriterAI (5373)
• Bulgaria
19 Feb 18
Take care.
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