Pet Peeve #345
By April
@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
Defuniak Springs, Florida
February 6, 2018 2:50pm CST
I cannot stand it when someone constantly complains about the same thing, such as something being wrong in their life and then they just don't do anything about it. I've seen it time and time again on Facebook, Twitter, here and other social media websites. People complain about the same thing every single day, people tell them ways that they could change it or make it better, and they don't do anything. It's almost as if they just want to have something to complain about.
Are people really that afraid of change?
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9 responses
@moffittjc (121731)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Feb 18
Sometimes, people aren't happy unless they're miserable. Does that make sense? Complainers are always going to complain, no matter what. No matter what happens in their life, they're going to only see the negative, and then complain about it. My brother is like that.
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@moffittjc (121731)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Feb 18
@thislittlepennyearns Haha, I think I must see those same ones as you do. I just shake my head and move on. Not worth wasting my time on them. They'll just complain about it anyway. haha
@moffittjc (121731)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Feb 18
@thislittlepennyearns Oh lord, nothing is worse than middle school drama!
@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
7 Feb 18
@moffittjc Yeah. They are so annoying. Ick. If I wanted to deal with middle school drama I would teach middle school.
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@andriaperry (117146)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Feb 18
YES they are. I can call my sister and ask " what are you doing? " she answers I dont feel good. every day she says I dont feel good, last time I said I already know that, I asked you what are you doing?
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@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
7 Feb 18
They become what is wrong with them and that defines them. And its sad.
@snowy22315 (182212)
• United States
6 Feb 18
Yes, that gets old..either do something about it or quit complaining. People don't want to hear the same thing every day.
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@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
Exactly I'm glad you agree with me. lo l. I also hate when you bring this to their attentionand they say its so and sos fault. no the fact that you haven't changed is no one but your fault.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Feb 18
they are afraid of change for the worse. problem is sometimes no suggestions will work out. like i didn't want to move to Florida but it was that or be on the street with my dog. yes i could give up my dog and live with one friend in AZ but sorry i would rather have my dog and complain. but lost my dog anyway. so you see what i mean? can't move back because i can't afford an oxygenator for the trip. people suggest all kinds of things i have tried to no avail. so yes some complain because it is all they can do to vent. 
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@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
No they are just afraid of doing anything out of their comfort zone.
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@Marilynda1225 (83103)
• United States
6 Feb 18
If they're complaining about something they can change then they should and not complain. If it's not something they can change then they just like to complain
@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
If they have the ability and they are too lazy to change, then it's there fault. I don't want to hear you complain if you have the power to change the situation.
@spiderdust (14760)
• San Jose, California
6 Feb 18
I think they're just fishing for validation and answers that they like, rather than constructive advice.
@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
Which might be really the part that annoys me the most. I cannot stand people that want to complain about stuff but they don't want to change.
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@spiderdust (14760)
• San Jose, California
6 Feb 18
@thislittlepennyearns I'm in a few Facebook groups full of people like that. We call them Drama Llamas.
@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
@spiderdust aha. I have a shirt that says save the drama for your llama.
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@shaggin (72262)
• United States
7 Feb 18
It bugs me sometimes to but mostly I feel they just need to vent and maybe aren’t ready or able to change the situation yet.
@thislittlepennyearns (62930)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
Not without trying to change what you are complaining about.Thats just plain lazy.
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@Isreally (196)
• Nigeria
6 Feb 18
Change is the key..if they don't want to change,leav them to their fate and 1 day they would realize themselves and CHANGE
