Are young black and Asian women under pressure to lighten their skin?

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Beyonce’s dad has caused quite a stir by suggesting lighter skin black girls are far more successful and popular than darker skin black girls because of something called ‘colourism’, especially in America. The inference is that lighter black skinned black and Asian girls are maybe what a white audience and employers want. In Bollywood many white British actresses are cast to play Indians,. It’s unsure if Mathew Knowles is saying his daughter was the most successful solo career born out of Destiny’s Child because of that lighter skin tone (and getting lighter) or the other three girls didn’t make it so big because they were darker. Beyonce’s mom was black but very light skinned. Many would say the darker skinned Kelly Roland was a much better singer than Miss Knowles in Destinys Child. Beyonce’s dad was also the manager of Destiny’s Child so that clearly helped her daughter get on in the band, regardless of her skin tone. In fact the band split in half because the other two black girls accused him of favouritism. Maybe dad knew the lightest skinned one of the four had the best chance? Maybe he married alight skin black lady to give his kids a chance? Oprah Winfrey kind of disproves that proper attractive dark black women can’t make it in America though. I know in Asia and places like India that the lighter your skin the prouder some parents are of their children. In India you see women under umbrellas trying to avoid tanning. It’s something to do with darker skin associated with working outside and so a lower caste perceived. In African and Caribbean families some parents teach their kids that lighter skin is good. That to me is very sad. If a girl is pretty, whatever color she is, boys will go for her. If a girl is good at her job she will be promoted, however dark she is. Its seems the huge sales of skin whitening creams are more about family shame than white people waning black girls to be lighter. I love back girls. They are always fun and positive. It’s not nice to see magazines lightening Rihanna’s skin color and so warping young black girl’s idea of what is pretty and desirable. In the U.K a lot of black men marry or date white women. 52% of black Caribbean women are single parents here. Are dads trying to subconsciously dilute their kid’s skin colour to give them a better chance in life? Black men tend to leave the relationships with black women for some reason. Black women with mixed race kids get stick from some people in their own community, the same community neglecting black women in relationships, it seems. Black women tend not to date white men though. They are desperate for good black men. If lack men got their act together I think we would see black crime rates tumble in America.