being a mom

You can advise them to have fun and maybe a career before they decide to have kids but your life doesn't have to be over just because you had children young. One day they will be grown up and you will still be at an age where you can enjoy life and do something you want.

There is nothing wrong If they too want to be a teen mom.I believe every one has their rights.you can teach them the responsibilities of being a mom and a healthy relationship.some teenagers can handle all the problems,that's why they can be a teen mom.I think you dont need to worry. Just teach them good manners.

like for me i have a new officemate who is still 22 years old and she wants and plan to get married at the age of 23, according to her she wants to enjoy having little ones at a young age so that when they become teens they are like of the same age and treat each other as bestfriends. but i keep on telling her until now that don't rush settling down as early as 23 because there are still a lot in store for her, so better to enjoy everything now coz being in a parent's life requires alot of time being with kids and less time being of herself. and i think she listen because she also observes in us her other office mates who are parents already that we really go home early and spend more time with the kids and a lesser time socializing in the office. well probably that makes sense.. try.. but don't feel any regret because i know when your children grow up they'll thank u for giving them a lot of your time than having time for yourself.. i'm sure soon they'll also appreciate your sacrifices. no other job is most genuinely happy and complete than being a mom..

Tell them to love themselves and reach for the stars. Make a point of celebrating strong women and they'll follow along. You, by asking this question are a great example of one yourself! You're doing great :)