First Time Way From Home...Alone
By cherigucchi
@cherigucchi (14876)
Philippines
March 8, 2018 1:21am CST
There were times when I got bored with family life and felt that I had all good travel opportunities passed me by just because I was scared to travel alone. When an opportunity for a scholarship abroad (Singapore) knocked at my door again, I felt that it was time to make a go for it. I felt I needed that at least to relax and have a real good time for myself. It was a one month short course to attend and I really did undergo a rigid screening just to represent the country.
It was my first time to be away from home. Would you believe that the same oldest brother I mentioned who accompanied me in applying for a job was the same brother who were with me to get my passport?! Really! Imagine, I already had 3 kids but my siblings never stopped worrying about me when it comes to things like that. It felt like I am a stupid little cat who would go astray once not supervised.
That first trip away from home alone taught me a lot…
…that I can also take care of myself though I was that far away from home;
…I can’t take a longer vacation away from my kids and husband;
…my family and friends miss me a lot!
…I cannot sleep without the annoying sounds created by my kids before I fall asleep.
The comfort that I felt during the stay was not really uncomfortable because I was not used to be alone…
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7 responses
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
9 Mar 18
@cherigucchi I don't blame you.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
8 Mar 18
You had your time then. I wish I can travel more with my family as long as I can.
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
8 Mar 18
There was a time when I felt the same way as you and I went to Bangkok and stayed there for 6 months. I can travel alone by myself and even age away from family and friends. I can be brave when I want to. But now that I'm 40, I no longer want to travel alone and it's my choice. But maybe when that day comes when I feel I need time for myself again, I can do it again.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
8 Mar 18
I only travel alone whenever I need to attend trainings and seminars but not for pleasure. I always do it with the family. I am not brave as you are when it comes to travelling alone.
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
8 Mar 18
@cherigucchi Yeah your discussion obviously pointed that out.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
8 Mar 18
i think you're lucky to have siblings like that, than siblings who assume you already know what to do and don't even ask.
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
8 Mar 18
I can relate to that. Being far away from our relatives, it taught us to be responsible for ourselves. My hubby once said, "when you want to go to some places I can´t go with you, you have to learn to be alone so you will see what you want to see without me." That is when I wanted to travel to another country and he didn´t want to go with me.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
He is a very supportive husband and I admire your courage.
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
12 Mar 18
@cherigucchi He is indeed. I only go to where the place is safe for me.
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
I am planning to do that. To travel alone gives you the perspective you need to know yourself better and be back a changed person in terms of maturity and experience.
@sashann (210)
• Philippines
8 Mar 18
Having your family who's always there for you is the thing that you missed the most, but go for it, go for your dream!!