Are You Desperate like Me In Mylot?

@AKRao24 (27424)
India
March 9, 2018 12:31pm CST
I become desperate the moment I post a discussion or respond a discussion and I immediately start checking my notifications. I become restless if I find no notifications there in my notification box. Then after waiting for a while, when I go to notifications again, I again become desperate to answer all the notifications what I get there! Do you think that my nature of this is giving a hint that I am becoming an addict again to this site? Are you as desperate as me to check your notifications and replying them? Your responses will be highly appreciated! Thanks!
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33 responses
• Russian Federation
9 Mar 18
Hello! Notifications are the second thing I open in here. The first thing is private messages. MyLot is opened in my browser whole day, so I just refresh it from time to time... I do not think that you have an addiction, just some free time
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
9 Mar 18
Thanks a lot for thinking that I am not getting addicted to this site by looking at mydesperation dear friend @MashaVickina! I hardly get any private messages so there is no anxiety about that! Have a great time! Stay blessed!
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@ptrikha_2 (47110)
• India
9 Mar 18
@AKRao24 and sometimes, some addiction is not bad.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
10 Mar 18
@MashaVickina , For sure, we have to have some free time, otherwise, we could not be here at all.
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@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
9 Mar 18
Maybe it sounds like addiction. Take a break!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
9 Mar 18
Thanks I think I must do that, if this thing persists dear friend @anikoonline! have a great time! Thanks!
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• Hungary
9 Mar 18
@AKRao24 Have a great time here, too (with some breaks)!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Yes I understood now @anikoonline ! Thanks!
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Mar 18
Two days earlier I felt the same way, I have posted my responses and till evening there was no notifications for me. I also surprised then I left the site. Usually I am getting notifications soon or within half an hour. So do you know what I felt, may be beginning of the month and members may not in a hurry so all become bit slow.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Yes, may be you are correct, people are relaxing right now before tightening their belts to get into the race after midway of the month dear @Sreekala! Thanks!
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@ptrikha_2 (47110)
• India
14 Mar 18
@AKRao24 I avoid being in a hurry here but enjoy. However last few days, I have been quite involved in some lengthy comments and discussions here.
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@ptrikha_2 (47110)
• India
14 Mar 18
@AKRao24 yes and since even with big acceleration, we would not be able to make big amounts here, it is better to enjoy here.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
10 Mar 18
i would like to zero in my notifications. what i did before was, i finish all my notifications then make new discussions, that way, my notifications will all be fresh.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
I also do the same thing dear @ridingbet! That makes our lives easier here on Mylot! Thanks!
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• Cuddalore, India
10 Mar 18
Not only for you ,actually many of them
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Thanks for the information and updating me dear friend @Lignitecityabishek96 ! Now I am comfortable that I am not a person like this here!
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@deena123 (26)
• Kathmandu, Nepal
10 Mar 18
I have just joined the site, but i think unless it give you negative impact addiction is not bad.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Thanks a lot for your kind views dear @deena123! Have a great time!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Thanks @mydanods , agreed, have a nice time!
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
10 Mar 18
I also think addiction is not bad.
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@ptrikha_2 (47110)
• India
9 Mar 18
Yes even I have some addiction as the days when I cannot come to Mylot, I feel as if I am missing it. But then after a few days, we have to get over this addiction, and think of enjoying whatever time we can spend here.
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@ptrikha_2 (47110)
• India
14 Mar 18
@AKRao24 and I had an involuntarily break for 2 days
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@ptrikha_2 (47110)
• India
14 Mar 18
@AKRao24 yes and after work it is very tiring as well.
@allknowing (138003)
• India
9 Mar 18
That red number takes away my desperation (lol)
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
9 Mar 18
Agreed but some times that fails to appear which makes me desperate @allknowing ! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
That is the time when I get desperate @allknowing ! Before refreshing! Thanks!
@allknowing (138003)
• India
10 Mar 18
@AKRao24 If you refresh that page the number will appear
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
10 Mar 18
I usually post a discussion and leave it for a while and there are nearly always some when I come back. Sometimes I have lots and sometimes not too many. It doesn't stress me out though.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
@sprite1950, nice to know that you are balanced here as far as the responses are concerned! Have a great day! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
@sprite1950 , yes I am realizing that now ! I will give a try to that also! Thanks!
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
10 Mar 18
@AKRao24 You should try it. Just go away and leave a discussions. Sometimes people are sleeping, sometimes they are working on other posts but they will get round to yours in their own time
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
9 Mar 18
No, I am not desperate at all concerning this.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
9 Mar 18
Nice to know that @marlina ! Now will also try not to get desperate! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Thanks for the advise @marlina !
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
10 Mar 18
@AKRao24 You have to relax and enjoy the process.
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@Shiva49 (26789)
• Singapore
10 Mar 18
When I post a discussion I am anxious to reply asap to the responses. So I keep checking whenever I can for the notifications. I think this is a natural thing to do - siva
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
So, you mean my anxiety is not abnormal one dear friend @Shiva49 ? Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Just I was kidding that is very true dear friend @Shiva49 ! Stay blessed!
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@Shiva49 (26789)
• Singapore
10 Mar 18
@AKRao24 To be anxious is quite normal as that shows our interest for the responses - siva
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
10 Mar 18
When I post something then I too.. As I want more people must present their views
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Thanks dear friend @mohit459, it is natural for any one to expect the responses back! God bless!
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
10 Mar 18
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
9 Mar 18
No I'm not addicted to notifications.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
9 Mar 18
Nice to know that...I normally rely on that to check who all have responded and I need to reply them...as i don't want to do injustice to the members supporting me dear friend @Icydoll! Thanks ! God bless!
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
9 Mar 18
@AKRao24 I do reply...but don't wait for notifications..:) God bless you too take care
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
9 Mar 18
I only spend an hour or two per day in Mylot and when I do I usually check my notifications ! So no, you're not addicted.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
9 Mar 18
Thanks a lot dear friend @houda28 ! I have got no fixed time so may be because of that I am behaving like That! god bless!
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• Janesville, Wisconsin
10 Mar 18
I try to respond to a few things before checking my notifications gives others a chance to catch up with my fast activity lol... if you think it is an addiction just take a break and see how you act if all you can think about is notifications might have to take a break, but do not forget you can start new discussions too which also bring notifications. :) .
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• Janesville, Wisconsin
11 Mar 18
@AKRao24 The more you respond the more responses you get., So just remain active i got 30 responses yesterday as I replied to many discussions.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 Mar 18
@dnatureofdtrain , thanks a lot for your sincere advise...I will try to adhere to it! have a great time!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 Mar 18
@dnatureofdtrain , Yes,I am getting your point...I don't think that I am getting addicted but yes definitely I am anxious to see the responses to me discussions! Thanks!
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@snowy22315 (182463)
• United States
10 Mar 18
I wouldnt say i am desperateay desperate, but I am disappointed if it takes morebthan 10 orb15 minutes to get a response.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
@snowy22315, you ae also like me ....we either want a response or want to know why didn't get one so far! Thanks!
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@TheHorse (220468)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 Mar 18
I woudn't say I'm desperate, but I sure do check my new posts a few minutes later to make sure they're getting SOME attention. And I try to respond to comments. Right now, I'm behind, I know.
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• India
18 Jun 18
Earlier I used to check them. Now I do my work and then leave it for sometime and when I check in back after a few hours, they all grow up along with money
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Jun 18
Yes, I agree with you....but I lack that patience dear friend!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Jun 18
@anamika161088 , that is what I have been doing so far on this site! Thanks!
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• India
18 Jun 18
@AKRao24 Then enjoy being impatient. Lol
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
10 Mar 18
Limit yourself to checking your notifications only once or twice a day. Don't get stressed out, relax... :)
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Thanks a lot dear @Bullshark ! I would try that ! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
@Bullshark , God bless us all!
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
10 Mar 18
@AKRao24 Hey, don't mention it... :)
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
10 Mar 18
Not at all..it is leisure time for me here, I am not stressing lol
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
Thanks a lot to know that @Courage7 ! some times I think I getting myself involved too much!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Mar 18
@Courage7 , Have a nice time and enjoy the life!
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
10 Mar 18
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