helping a friend though a very hard time.

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A friend of mine wife left him this weekend. Ok so will give the short story. Ok S(husband) has a lot of trouble trustng T (wife) because she has cheated in the past. Well sat. T wanted to go out with firends and S was a little ify on letting her go, but he decided that this would be a good way of her earning some trust back. They both agree to she would ave no more than 4 drinks and would be home at 11pm. well she never came home or called. Sunday S went to T's work and she was there. He asked what happend and she said she got drunk and could not drive and stayed at a friends house. S asked T if she was sorry for staying out all night and not calling and she did not answer him. T was getting off of work that day at 4:15 S told her that if she wanted to save this marriage that she needed to be home by 4:45. Well at 6:30 a friend of T's called and said that she was not comeing home and that she would be by the next day to pick up there son and take him to daycare (monday, today) well this morning she texted message S and said that she was notgoing to pick up the baby and that S need to take hin to daycare abd she would pick up the baby from there. S called her and said that he was not going to drop the baby off of daycare he was going to take the day off. And that if she waned the baby she would have to come to the house and pick up the baby and talk to him. He told her that he was not going to try to get her to stay, that all he want was a answer on why this is happening. My husband and I are trying so hard to be there for our friend in this hard time. I just don't know what I can do to help him though this. We have let him come over when ever he wants t stay as long as he wants. This is all that I know to do. Do you have any suggestions on what I can do to help him out?