Personality or Appearance ?
@Jessabuma (31700)
Baguio, Philippines
March 21, 2018 4:14pm CST
I think , personality probably is more important than physical appearance. But most people judge a person by his or her appearance. But for me, I always choose personality over appearance, because in this world nothing is permanent, even our appearance , beauty or good looking it will fade just like bubbles.
How about you guys ? What are your preferences in choosing your friends ? Do you prefer to have a friend with good personality or a good looking friend?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
21 Mar 18
I have all kind of friends and of course personality is more important than looks but some have both and some have neither but they are still my friends.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 Mar 18
Well, me too, I have a lot of friends, I am not a choosy person but I always prefer to have a friend who has a good personality.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
22 Mar 18
@Jessabuma Me too but people are people and I don't want to neglect anyone as everyone needs a friend.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@1hopefulman exactly. Every one needs true friend
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
Personality is way much better than appearance. It's a fact that everybody goes old and physical beauty fades in time.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
@Jessabuma I never wanted a good looking husband. I wanted a smart and with great personality one.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Mar 18
True. Although I also want to have good looking friend or good looking partner, I prefer to have good personality friends. It for keeps.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@toniganzon That's right. We should be practical , good looking guys are useless if he only knows how make every woman fall for for him but doesn't know how to make a living, and vice versa.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3743)
• Bucharest, Romania
31 Mar 18
personality bigger than appearance.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3743)
• Bucharest, Romania
31 Mar 18
@Jessabuma i don't know why but the character "" did not appear in my comment initially but i corrected it and now it is fine.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
31 Mar 18
@Cristi_Ichim What do you mean?
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@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
22 Apr 18
@Jessabuma So you like korean dramas ? If so, which one is your favorite ? 
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Apr 18
@august18 well, I have a long list of favorite kdramas hahaha!!!
But "love in the moonlight " is one of my favorites.. "I am not a robot" , the heirs, and legend of the blue sea.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
2 Apr 18
Personality is more important but unfortunately we do judge people on the way they look, even if we don't realise it. Everyone likes to see a pretty face but one thing I have noticed is when you get to know someone. even if they don't seem attractive at first, they can become attractive because they shine from within and that shows in their face.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
2 Apr 18
@sprite1950 you're welcome dear friend
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
26 Mar 18
Yes indeed .. Everyone is beautiful until proven ugly ... that's what I always say ..
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@cmoneyspinner (9219)
• Austin, Texas
18 Jul 18
When I think back on it, I was a shy quiet person. I didn't actually approach people to make friends. But the people who became my friends must have thought I was approachable, because they approached me! I was cool with that. It didn't matter what they looked like. If they started a conversation with me I would just talk back! If they decided they liked me and wanted to be my friend, it was fine by me. 
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
18 Jul 18
That's nice of you.. me too and I am not choosy. I love to make friends, regardless of their looks and etc.
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@Shiva49 (26659)
• Singapore
22 Mar 18
@Jessabuma It is said, " form is temporary but class is permanent".
Likewise, personality is permanent but the appearance is temporary - siva
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Mar 18
It's a nice opinion. And it is definitely correct. Nothing is permanent in this world not even our appearance. But personality lasts long.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
21 Mar 18
I have had some not so good looking friends, I am also not the good looking friend. I love personality, in dating, in friendships. If someone can understand me, can listen to me, love me for my weirdness and are just a beautiful person I will love them. If doesn't matter how pretty or ugly someone is, we are all going to get old, and if we get to be friends until we are 90, who cares what we look like. I still want to laugh at the same jokes.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
22 Mar 18
@Jessabuma I have been friends with people that I never thought I could be friends with. As long as someone has a good heart. That is all I need to welcome them into my life.
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@DesirousDreamer yes me too. I don't have any preference in choosing friend because no one is perfect as long as you are happy with them and they are not bad people, they are not bad influence regardless of their looks.
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 Mar 18
Very well said ma'am. I am not also choosy person, every one who has a good intentions approaching me to become friend. I don't mind , even he or she is good looking or not , rich or poor as long as he isn't a bad influence I will surely accept . Because true friend doesn't sees your outside appearance but what is inside your heart is the most important.
@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
29 Mar 18
Physical appearance is the first thing that you see, but it is the less important. Personality is the key, I don't care of appearance.
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@Debscrochet (1947)
• United States
29 Mar 18
Personality for sure. We have to be able to get along or it's not much of a friendship.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
Yes that is correct. I also choose personality over appearance
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@xstitcher (32392)
• Petaluma, California
12 May 18
Personality is first for me. Anyone can be "beautiful", but not have a great personality.
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@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
6 Apr 18
Certainly their attitude has a lot to do with it. Looks usually have very little to do with it.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Apr 18
Yes that's right.. me too but character is more important for me
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