Early Child Care

@cashpesa (164)
March 24, 2018 6:03am CST
I hate my mom, she doesn't love me , I wish i could just get another mom even if it's a step mom , my mom is so mean I hate her I hate her then she shouted '' You are not my friend anymore mom '' I will never forgive you. you are bad '' This are the exact words of a seven year old girl . I overheard her this morning .They are my neighbor . My question is how do you deal with such children ? As your child ever told you that? Can a mother be so bad to her own child to be told such words? Can it be possible that this child is spoiled too much ? Am not a mother yet but I can't bear this words
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
24 Mar 18
No mother bears this hate words from her child
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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24 Mar 18
This is not the first time the child has spoken so
What'sUp_Cel
@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
26 Mar 18
She's still young she's just a stubborn child so I don't think she meant it a lot to hate her mom. How old is she by the way?
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What'sUp_Cel
@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
26 Mar 18
@cashpesa Yes, her parents should teach her child good manners so it's up to them how they're going to raise their children.
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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26 Mar 18
only 7 year old she might never meant it but I it might grow into an habit
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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26 Mar 18
@rheicel yes parents need to create values in their children while still young
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Mar 18
There will be simple issues needed for a 7 years old to react like this. As a mother I don't appreciate if a child scream like that way. Possibility is there, child is spoiled too much.
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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24 Mar 18
That's what I thought too but I can't say for sure because sometimes I personally have witnessed her mother punishing her
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Mar 18
@cashpesa Punishing too much also will give opposite result.
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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24 Mar 18
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lovely
@augusta123 (6649)
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26 Mar 18
Some mothers are mean to their kids,I wonder what goes through their mind
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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26 Mar 18
yes you right I wonder too why bring a child to this Earth and be mean
lovely
@augusta123 (6649)
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26 Mar 18
@cashpesa it breaks my heart and the kids becomes so helpless
mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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28 Mar 18
Diana
@dya80dya (36769)
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26 Mar 18
Yes. The child is too spoiled. But it could be something else. Mother can be really mean.
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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28 Mar 18
i know her mom she is not mean but she is too busy with work she has no time for her children maybe that's why the child speaks like this
Louise Crisologo
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Mar 18
As children, we are careless of the words we say to our parents, especially out mothers. They carry the weight of our words without a hint of complain. But we will always realize our mistake when we see other children doing the same foolishness we did when we were young.
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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26 Mar 18
true and at that point it really hurt
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Louise Crisologo
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
@cashpesa yes and we cannot bring back time and the words we said.
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wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 18
yes I am not getting along well with my mother when I was young, now that she is 60 years old, I can a little bit adjust to her.
wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 18
@cashpesa she is favour my brother than me all the life
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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25 Mar 18
since you grown up i think you should solve your issues sit down as mature PE and talk it out . She must be paining a lot from the ins
Shasta
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
25 Mar 18
Yes, I've been told "I hate you" by my daughter. I looked at her with a smirk on my face and said "No ya don't" Her eyes got big and her jaw dropped because she realized her act had failed. That little girl doesn't hate her mother. She's just being manipulative. To a kid, not getting their way is like the end of the world and they'll do and say whatever to get it. Mom should know better than to believe her own child hates her.
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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26 Mar 18
hopefully thats case
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Mavic123456
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
24 Mar 18
well she is so young to know what she is saying. but then she is so young to say those words.
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mercy
@cashpesa (164)
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26 Mar 18
exactly
Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
24 Mar 18
I can't judge any by only listening such
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