Lending money to family members

March 31, 2018 5:39pm CST
I gave some money to a family member that came asking for some loan and was supposed to pay back 2 months ago but this is the end of the third month and she is yet to pay, called and she reluctantly picked my calls with the excuse of giving her more time and I need my money for some urgent stuff,how do you handle stuff like this?
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@Berrygal (5834)
1 Apr 18
Only given what you can forget terrible people will never pay back
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1 Apr 18
I mean it Terrible
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
31 Mar 18
This is a hard situation. Some people will definitely pay it back, while others won't. I don't mind loaning money to some people, but it really does depend on the person in question.
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Apr 18
@augusta123 It isn't easy.
1 Apr 18
@dodo19 certainly
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1 Apr 18
This is always the hard part getting the money back
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@LaDeBoheme (2004)
• United States
31 Mar 18
I've learned that if you lend money to family or friend, count on never seeing it again. It sucks, but rather than be disappointed, you are pleasantly surprised if they DO pay it back.
1 Apr 18
That is really unfair to the lender,this could stop the person from helping the next time
• United States
2 Apr 18
@augusta123 I agree. It IS very unfair to the lender. I know it would stop me from helping out next time. If you tell me you will pay me back when you can, that's one thing. But if you tell me you'll pay me back next week or when you get your paycheck, then I expect it then.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
1 Apr 18
Most of the time my relatives are not paying me back and they avoided me.
@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
1 Apr 18
Yeah, a hard lesson learned, the only family member to lend me money is my aunt. My father and grandmother always say don't worry about it. My mother always wants it paid back!!! Never give more than han what U can spare!!!!
1 Apr 18
yea,that's a great lesson to be learned
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@dya80dya (36657)
1 Apr 18
Lend money only to people you trust. This happened to me also.
1 Apr 18
I trusted this person too