What advice would you give to a person dating your ex

@Berrygal (5834)
April 3, 2018 10:50am CST
Yeah,sometimes we date some people and wish we never did,maybe he or she was such a terrible person but they would be dating another right?so if you are in the position to advice the new friend what will it? Lol
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Apr 18
If my ex is a useless prick, then I will advice the girlfriend to just enjoy! Hahaha
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3 Apr 18
Hshaha useless prick,this got me rolling on the floor, the person should enjoy.
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@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
@augusta123 it got me laughing as well
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
4 Apr 18
@Berrygal @augusta123: yeah. He is useless for a reason. Hahaha
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• Pakistan
3 Apr 18
I think you should just let it be. If she is your friend you must share your experience subtly but don't tell them not to date outright. I believe people need to face the consequences of their bad decisions themselves.We can try to stop them but trust me they don't stop. So I have learned to just let it be.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 Apr 18
A wise approach there!
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@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
Well written. Thank you
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
3 Apr 18
My advice is just to enjoy and be happy. He was my ex and I think it is not proper to give advice to someone he is presently dating.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 Apr 18
Agreed - let them find out the same way you did.
@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
Yes right
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Apr 18
My late X is no longer among the living so there is nothing to warn anyone about.
@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Apr 18
@Berrygal I'm not.
@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
@just4him why??
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@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
Sorry about that
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Apr 18
I will just wish them to be happy.
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@Tinissome (314)
• Indonesia
4 Apr 18
I don't have idea.just show it
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
4 Apr 18
It depends on how well i know the person they have decided to start dating. Many times it is clnsidered interference and best unfortunately to wait and see it for themselves.
@Berrygal (5834)
4 Apr 18
Yea,they find out the good, bad and ugly themselves
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
3 Apr 18
Run for the hills!
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
5 Apr 18
@Berrygal Yes, I was joking. I would wish them a lot of luck. Just because I was not what she was looking for, doesn't mean that he can't be?
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@Berrygal (5834)
5 Apr 18
Hahaha rolling on the floor with laughter. You can't be serious?
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• Calgary, Alberta
3 Apr 18
self help books because he is dating a ticking time bomb. He will need self help books for his self esteem.
• Calgary, Alberta
5 Apr 18
@Berrygal I am pretty sure she will dump him for a man with fatter wallet.
@Berrygal (5834)
5 Apr 18
Wow,that's a huge one
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
5 Apr 18
@Berrygal If someone wanted to date my ex I would warn them to run as far as they can. He is dangerous and very bad news.
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
8 Apr 18
@Berrygal Thanks.
@Berrygal (5834)
5 Apr 18
Haha,they should better heed to your advice
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@aureliah (24322)
• Kenya
4 Apr 18
Sometimes the advise maynot matter if they are head over heels in love with that person. You might become the bad one also
@Berrygal (5834)
5 Apr 18
Very true buddy
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@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
3 Apr 18
Hahaha. One of the most interesting topics I ever came across on mylot.
@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
5 Apr 18
@Berrygal I don't have an ex.
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@Berrygal (5834)
5 Apr 18
Yea,so what will you tell your ex date
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@Mishra122 (155)
• Allahabad, India
3 Apr 18
I will suggest him that please be careful about him and you know the boy whom I like he always conscious that may be her mother her mom is going to catch him about us but still I love him a lot
@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
Haha, he was be a mama's boy then
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• Allahabad, India
4 Apr 18
• United States
6 Apr 18
I wouldn't give any advice if it is meant to be that is cool. I just hope that the both of them are happy and won't make the same mistakes that I did.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Apr 18
Great one there
• United States
6 Apr 18
@Berrygal Thank you!!
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
4 Apr 18
If he is my ex then, I should not be concerned of what he is doing such as dating or having a girlfriend/boyfriend. If we didn't get along well, then maybe he can be with others. We all deserve to be happy sometimes. And let us not forget that sometime in our lives we have shared good moments too.
@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Apr 18
There are 3 guys I dated in College that I really should not have dated. I would warn the women dating them that they may suffer by dating them.
@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
Yea, it could help them who knows
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 Apr 18
Nothing at all.
@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
Okay
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@augusta123 (6649)
3 Apr 18
i will say remember he is a mummy's boy,very childish person
@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
Yea,some can be very childish
@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
4 Apr 18
If it didn't work for me and him, it can work for him and another girl. I think I would give no advice because it is their private life.
@Berrygal (5834)
4 Apr 18
Alright dear friend
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@deba12 (2946)
• India
3 Apr 18
I would like to tell all the positive and negative qualities of my ex so that the person stay informed.
@Berrygal (5834)
3 Apr 18
That's if they will listen