What the!

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Philippines
April 5, 2018 8:08am CST
This is what i told to myself after what i saw in the church. We attended a mass and during the mass i observed one family sitting in front of us. They were so loving with each other. The father puts his arm on his wife's shoulder. His daughter played with his smartphone. Sigh i just can't help myself noticing every action that they make. I thought to myself maybe it would be better if i have not attended the mass at all because i couldn't concentrate. As the mass was about to end, i saw the father acting like he was about to hit his daughter! I couldn't believe what i saw. I looked at the father and then he immediately pulled back his fist. Gosh it is not right to hit a child especially, in public places! We are at the house of God, oh my... He is a man with big fists.I couldn't imagine what the child will look like if it landed on her cheek. Such hypocrites! I think I have also sinned. I should've minded my own business. How about you? Have you seen something like this on your community? What are your thoughts about this?
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@Spontaneo (14700)
• United States
5 Apr 18
Hitting a child is wrong period.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Apr 18
I think it is only natural that we gaze our thoughts on people like them. But to (nearly) hit a child in public is something else. What did the mother do?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Apr 18
@MrsPumpkins aw. That must be traumatizing for the daughter. I think some people just could not hold their temper.
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• Philippines
5 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 sometimes when my kids annoy me at the church, i usually warn them like "wait til we get home". And then they will stop fighting. And when we get home, i already have forgotten everything..
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• Philippines
5 Apr 18
Nothing... i think she did not saw that since she walked at their front.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
6 Apr 18
I would be very concerned about this man, he sounds like a bully and he is probably hitting his wife as well.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
7 Apr 18
You are right @BelleStarr. If the man is hitting a child with people around imagine what he is doing in private. I hate to think about that.
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• Philippines
6 Apr 18
I fear that
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
6 Apr 18
Wow, no one should act like that toward a child, in church or not. I would have had to say something if I had seen it. Good thing you looked at him and he stopped.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
6 Apr 18
@MrsPumpkins As well it should have, good for you.
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• Philippines
6 Apr 18
I stared at them for a long time and it made him feel awkward.
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@augusta123 (6649)
5 Apr 18
That would have been embarrassing to the child, I hope the wife intervene
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
8 Apr 18
Some wives are afraid of their husbands.
• Philippines
8 Apr 18
@ramapo17 i hate that fact
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
5 Apr 18
I have not witnessed anything like that in Church no. Maybe he was angry about the phone. But he should wait to discipline later after Church at least.
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• Philippines
5 Apr 18
Yeah that's what i thought but it could've been worse if it happened at home.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
5 Apr 18
@MrsPumpkins True enough.. Tho the kid has a phone..that would be a luxury to me at that age..we would be disciplined for being so rude in church.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
6 Apr 18
I have seen and experienced not so pleasant things at the church .. so I just stopped going ..
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• Philippines
6 Apr 18
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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• United States
6 Apr 18
I certainly would have been shocked in the way the father acted. I hope hitting that child isn't something he does. often
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
5 Apr 18
I have seen some parents looking like they were very angry at their child but I never saw anything like that.
@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Apr 18
It certainly isn't good if a father is punching his child in church - or at any other place.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
5 Apr 18
Hitting a child isn't good not only in public places but also at home or every where..
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