PARENTAL RELATIONSHIP
By TwineeSmiley
@twieesmiley (64)
Abuja, Nigeria
April 14, 2018 10:38am CST
In the world we live today, a girl child tends to be more closer to her mum and a boy child with more cordial relationship with his dad. I think it would have been better being vice versa. This is because, father has encountered several women and understands what separates a play type from a married type, he knows what makes a real man respect a woman, he knows how to guide a girl child more when it comes to emotions and romantic relationship than a woman. Also a woman who had come across several types of men, she knows what separates a boy from a man, the best way to become attractive to a good woman like she is e.t.c Unfortunately, girl child tends to reveal their relationship life more to their mother while a boy child does thesame to his father.
This is my own point of view, I don't mind criticisms, ideas, suggestions.
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2 responses
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
Hi TwineySmiley!
I think that both mother and father fulfills a specific need of the child. That is why families are designed to be as they were. However, everything changes with time - not only how the accepted structure of a family is but also the roles of the parents, the roles of husbands and wives, and the roles of children. Nowadays, both parents and children are wiser, more have an open mind and society is even opening up to unconventional family set-up which I believe is very important. Sometimes, these families are filled with unhappiness, missed opportunities, and secrets because of how society treats them.
I digress, I think what I am saying here is that each family's story is different as each individual is unique. What is clear is that children need guidance from parents - mother, father, or both. In case of the absence of parents, they need guidance from an adult who has their best interest at heart.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
14 Apr 18
Hey there,
Well, I believe both are important. When we talk about living beings, it's never so simple. Many fathers know how to raise them sons well. Many mothers know how to raise their daughters well. And vice-versa. But it's not everyone.
In the end, we, as humans, tend to learn from experience. We are curious beings, we learn from watching, from listening, from copying. The important thing, then, is to have good examples in life. As long as a person has great examples, it will tend to follow them.
I have seen a picture recently. There, we could see a building as high as the sky. And it was written: "What if we, 7 billion, worked together? What could we achieve? What if we respected each other and built a project of our own?"
Regards!
@ihasaquestion (8275)
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14 May 19
But in some culture, boys are more closer to their moms, and most girls are daddy's girl anyway..