Will you be happy to let go of someone when you know he/she loves others?

@chavezrmc (6095)
Philippines
April 16, 2018 11:04pm CST
I am thinking ofarranged marriage. Have a friend who is in this situation. Maybe as they go along love will be developed. Though they are close to each other still their love is on different level.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Apr 18
When you love a person, set that person free. In my case, perhaps I will rather than be hurt more.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 it will be a wise decision to let go.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 Thanks Louise, its so nice to have your responses, Time for bed, talk to you again tomorrow. goodnight my dear friend.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Apr 18
@chavezrmc Yes, my friend. Better that way.
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@LadyDuck (471508)
• Switzerland
17 Apr 18
I am against arranged marriages. You need to meet people and to find your soulmate yourself.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@LadyDuck Of course people can feel when true love is present between them.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@LadyDuck that should be the case, People will find their true love.
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@LadyDuck (471508)
• Switzerland
17 Apr 18
@chavezrmc This is my opinion, people feel when they have found their soulmate.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
The situation is kinda complicated and hard but if you love someone letting him/her go is the best choice rather than feel the pain for the rest of your life knowing he/she loves someone else.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@Bhebelen14 that will be a wise decision to make.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
17 Apr 18
If he(or she)loves others, let him(her)go is the best choice.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@caopaopao the best thing to do. But if this is an arranged marriage then there are many things to consider.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@caopaopao I understand that, but do you believe that people can fall in love so who knows this can be developed. Well but its a different story when the other partner love another.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
17 Apr 18
@chavezrmc People get divorced if they don't love each other. They should let it go even if it is an arranged marriage.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
I believe loving someone can be learned. It takes time for the both of them to develop their feelings but when they get along really well, I am sure they will end up happily ever after.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@sw8sincere on the other hand that is what they are thinking coz they have been friends. But marriage is not an experiment so they'll never know what it will bring in the future.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
17 Apr 18
Yes I will be happy to let him go if he loves another woman.. I don't like one sided love ..
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@Jessabuma well I would do the same as well.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@Jessabuma Exactly right Jess, it's just sad that people still has to experience this kind of thing. But we can't judge the people behind, i am sure they have their reasons.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
17 Apr 18
@chavezrmc yes that's right.. you will not become happy when your man loves another woman
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
Hi Chavez! Well, letting someone go even when you love him or her is actually a wise thing to do, for me at least. If he or she loves someone else, then getting on with the relationship will deprive him or her as well as yourself of true love and true happiness. However, arranged marriage is something else. Sure, you can fight it and go fight for true love but it can be a Herculian task because you will be trying to change culture. It all boils down to whether you think it is or it's not worth it.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@nanayangel very well said. thank you for sharing your thoughts.
• India
17 Apr 18
Let go is better than staying unhappy together.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@neha211985 it would be good if one of the partner will give way, though I know it won't be easy.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
17 Apr 18
I heard it, giving freedom is the real love.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@Sreekala, yeah still happening. Thought it was in the past.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Apr 18
letting go is best I think my dear friend
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Apr 18
@lcydoll we share the same views my friend.
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