What is one thing you can never forgive someone for doing?
By Purple Haven
@EricMcCole (551)
April 23, 2018 9:56am CST
Humans are social creatures, we form relationships with many people. But sadly, once upon a time, a problem, misunderstanding, ... happens. Some people choose to forgive and move on, and some choose to end up the relationship, no matter what kind it is.
Some people find it hard to forgive someone for doing a specific action.
For me, I'm not really sure what this thing is, but I find it hard to keep on with someone who has betrayed me in a way or another. Anyway, I'm a sensitive person, I cannot hurt anyone, and I don't want to do so at all. I try to understand the reason behind someone's behavior and the factors that led that particular thing to occur.
What about you? :)
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Apr 18
When my best friend stole my man , it will takes long time before I forgive her.. that is for sure..
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@morgoodie (2645)
• United States
25 Apr 18
I can't forgive someone who abandoned their children not once but twice. There isn't an excuse for why he has done this, but it is his loss as they are great children and anyone would be proud to call them their own. I know I do.
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@EricMcCole (551)
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25 Apr 18
I'm so sorry to know about that! That's for sure a horrible thing to do. I wish you all the best!!! 
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@morgoodie (2645)
• United States
25 Apr 18
@EricMcCole Thank you! I appreciate it!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 18
There's only one person I can never forgive, and that's my daughter's ex-boyfriend. She was just 18 and he was driving dangerously and crashed the car which somersaulted several times.
My daughter was severely injured, but he ran off and left her bleeding in the road because he didn't want to get in trouble with the police.
I could forgive him crashing the car, and perhaps even the reckless driving, but I can never, ever forgive him leaving her. This was 30 years ago and I'm getting furious just writing this.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 18
@EricMcCole The police caught him anyway, but that didn't help my daughter.
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@EricMcCole (551)
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24 Apr 18
Woah! This is so horrific and very awful. I'm so sorry to know about that! :(
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@EricMcCole (551)
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24 Apr 18
@jaboUK That was a very horrible act by him. Wish you the best! :)
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
1 May 18
I am usually forgiving by nature, but I learn from the event and become cautious of it in the future. Ending a relationship prematurely is never the solution.
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@EricMcCole (551)
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1 May 18
Great to have a kind & forgiving nature!
You're right. Learning from our experiences so as not to repeat the same mistake is a thing we all should do. :)
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
29 Apr 18
@EricMcCole
I cannot forgive someone that causes me a lot of pain.
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@wolfgirl569 (106359)
• Marion, Ohio
23 Apr 18
I forgive them for me. But I do not allow them the chance to do it again, even if it means never talking to them again.
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@EricMcCole (551)
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23 Apr 18
It's also good to try to understand what led that thing to happen to be able to come up with a solution! ;)
