Do you think shouting at your partner is OK?

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Russian Federation
April 25, 2018 5:59am CST
Hello, everyone! Today I was outside and noticed a girl in her late twenties shouting at her boyfriend/husband. Not only she raised her tone, she used rather offensive words only because he forgot to buy something. Personally, I always raise my tone at others when I am angry, but only if they are strangers. If I chose the man for me, shouting at him will not do. Shouting at him would show that I am disappointed with my choice. Do you agree with me? Are there any situations when shouting at a partner is OK? What if a situation would be really serious? Have you ever raised your tone at your significant other or vice versa?
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The Fly One
@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
25 Apr 18
No it’s not okay but at times we cannot help it
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Masha Vickina
@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
25 Apr 18
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The Fly One
@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
27 Apr 18
@MashaVickina Its not okay since it worsens the relationship
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Apr 18
It's never right to shout at the people you love. I'm not a shouter, but have raised my voice dealing with idiots on the phone. lol
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
25 Apr 18
I do it very rarely, most of the time I have my patience. At time I just burst which gives me great life for keeping my patience for more in future. But I do it at home alone. I won't appreciate the same at road or infront of any one.
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Hope
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
25 Apr 18
I would only shout at anybody if they are hard of hearing or I need to warn them of an imminent danger. No, I don't shout at anybody.
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Hope
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
25 Apr 18
@MashaVickina I'm hoping to become one, one day. It takes time and work to mature but I'm going in the right direction.
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Masha Vickina
@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
25 Apr 18
The more I read your comments, the more impressed I am. You are a real man
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topffer
@topffer (42156)
• France
25 Apr 18
I have had a couple of neighbors who were screaming at each other each time they were drinking too much. It could last all the night but the day after they were looking like a loving couple. I am sociable and I avoid to shout at anybody or to display angry reactions, but nobody being perfect I have exploded a few times in my life, and it was memorable moments for people around.
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anamika
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
25 Apr 18
Shouting might make the situation worse. Better to stay calm and discuss the problem and mutually come to the solution. It is helpful in strengthening the bind also
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ultraman cosmos
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
29 Apr 18
No and no you should never shout at your partner no matter what
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Cristian Ichim
@Cristi_Ichim (3743)
• Bucharest, Romania
26 Apr 18
not a good thing but sometimes it happens
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Ria Roy
@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
1 May 18
Every situation can be handled in an even tone. Shouting never helps!
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Margarita
@Meramar (2695)
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11 May 18
No way. Shouting is not my choice. When I get angry of any reason, I rather prefer to wait until my spirit calms down before talking to the other person. Talking in a quiet position helps to avoid saying something you my regret afterwards.
William Rice
@William21001 (2637)
• Havre De Grace, Maryland
27 Apr 18
Depends things get heated but no not good to hollar but sometimes you have to to get your point across
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