Would you forgive cheating?
@Lost93 (118)
Serbia
May 6, 2018 1:11pm CST
You think you've met the love of your life. Everything is great. You're happy. And then after a while, you discover that he/she cheated on you.
My personal opinion is that we should not forgive cheating. I forgave once, when I was very in love, but then and never again.
What would you do? Would you forgive cheating?
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11 responses
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
6 May 18
Hi Ivan. I usually give second chances but if done a second time, it is finally over.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
7 May 18
@Tina30219 Hi Tina. I think it is a case-to-case basis. Never been to that situation yet.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
7 May 18
@Lost93 Thank you, Ivan. Yes, it depends but I step back when I know there is no point giving another chance.
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@Tina30219 (81922)
• Onaway, Michigan
6 May 18
No I would not forgive cheating because once a cheater always a cheater.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
6 May 18
No, I would not. Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
6 May 18
@Lost93 you should write what you think about your own question, in your post.. may get more readers. as some don't like when people ask questions but don't give their own opinions.
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@Lost93 (118)
• Serbia
6 May 18
@Courtlynn You're right. I am new here so I need some time to figure out how everything works. Thank you for telling me that. 
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
7 May 18
I might not forgive cheating but will forget the cheater and won't let it happen. Again
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@isayyyofficial (87)
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7 May 18
I've been to that situation too. Its really hard to forgive but you need to. Everyone is not perfect.You need atleast give her a chance. A one last chance rather to prove herself. If she did the same way again its her fault atleast you give her a chance.
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@isayyyofficial (87)
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7 May 18
@Lost93 shes not worthy to love you. Hope you can find someone who deserve you more.
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@Lost93 (118)
• Serbia
7 May 18
@isayyyofficial That was a long time ago. After all, I found the right girl that deserves me. Tnx
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@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
7 May 18
Hi! and welcome to myLot enjoy friendly site here...
As for my personal opinion, I never stop forgiving even how many times, because I also do mistakes in my life, I am only human. I leave and open doors for a new beginning for that person to change through meditation...
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@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
6 May 18
No, my all partners knew that I have a knife
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@Renvil (179)
• Philippines
7 May 18
Yes i can forgive at first as no one is perfect and people can make mistakes. But once is enough. If twice or more it is intentional already.
@Amyensees (30)
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7 May 18
The problem with cheating is it's one of two things one is it's either something in their personality. I've had a lot of guy friends and some of them chose women who cheated on them and they would love them so much they would forgive them and inevitably it would happen again and again.
And this seems to happen with women with their boyfriends as well. The other the other scenario is that it's something in the relationship it's a symptom of something that's going on in the relationship. The person is not getting what they need or they want to break up but they don't know how to say it either unconsciously or consciously.
I personally wouldn't forgive it. I know it's different if a person only suspect cheating but I still think the two should break up because either the person really is cheating and your intuition is telling you the truth or the person who suspect the cheating is insecure and maybe doesn't have enough trust for the relationship.
