How to stop your partner from looking at other women?

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@allknowing (136099)
India
May 12, 2018 1:35am CST
I have resigned to the fact that no matter how much a partner loves his wife he will never give up looking at other women. I remember my husband saying women are a work of art and so why should anyone not look at art Any solution to this?
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@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
12 May 18
I do not care if my husband looks at other women if we are not together, I would not tolerate if he would turn his hear while we are together. This is something he only did once, I think he still remembers how mad I was. I am very quiet and sweet, but the few times I get mad, I REALLY GET MAD.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
There are looks and looks and those particular looks will turn any wife mad. Good you reacted
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@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
12 May 18
@allknowing He never dared again.
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@rakski (122360)
• Philippines
12 May 18
Oh. I womder what happened?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 May 18
My husband is not the type of looking at women or staring at them. He makes me feel secure always.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
Are you with him 24 hours of the day?
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
12 May 18
You just don't catch him glancing from time to time, not staring, that is different
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 May 18
@allknowing No but even if he does look at them, it is fine hehehe
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
12 May 18
I appreciate the philosophy of your husband, he is so correct ! How can men ignore such beaty created by God! At the end Men will be always Men!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
12 May 18
@allknowing , otherwise I would be debarred from the Clan of men!
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
@AKRao24 I appreciate your honesty. Hope your wife is not here
@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
So without saying it you have admitted that you too do what other men do
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
12 May 18
haha there is no solution except stop worrying on the hard fact.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
Atleast keep a watch (lol)
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• United States
12 May 18
Nothing wrong with looking.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
That is just the beginning (lol)
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• United States
13 May 18
@allknowing Hahah as long as its just looking - no touching!!
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
@infatuatedbby I am sure he will take your permission before doing that
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• Russian Federation
12 May 18
2 ways: 1) Always have a knife in your handbag (your man must know about it). 2) have a stunning body, better than any of females in your city. I have chosen the 2nd variant, my husband never looks at other women because he knows that my figure is better. All is in your hands
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
Congrats on the success of your mission
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@rakski (122360)
• Philippines
12 May 18
@MashaVickina Good options. Before having kids, my option is 2. Now, i will choose option 1.
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• Russian Federation
12 May 18
@rakski cool
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
12 May 18
I do not think there is a solution and there is no need trying to solve it. Looking at a woman does not equal to not loving our wife or wanting to trade or exchange them for another " if eyes were made for seeing then beauty is it's own excuse for being"... Ralph Waldo Emerson
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
12 May 18
I appreciate the quote by Ralph Waodo Emerson! So true!
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
Thus far and no fuirther (lol)
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
12 May 18
The only solution for you is to dig out his eyes.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
Would you do it? (lol)
@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
@id_peace So that advice is for others?
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
12 May 18
Why would i dig anyone eyes
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@Shiva49 (26669)
• Singapore
13 May 18
I think it is a natural instinct for a man to be attracted to a woman but it should be within the limits of decency. I feel a woman is attracted likewise to a handsome guy - siva
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
Neither would want the other to do that though (lol)
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@Shiva49 (26669)
• Singapore
13 May 18
@allknowing Agreed, but it is a reflex action and that means we are alive with some hope still left in us! For a man I know "'It ain't over till the fat lady sings' - siva
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13 May 18
Attraction is the beginning of undecency.Lol
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@thelme55 (76957)
• Germany
12 May 18
I think the solution is, look at gorgeous men when you catch him looking at women. He will then know how annoying that habit is.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
Have you been doing that?
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
@thelme55 How sure are you? (lol)
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@thelme55 (76957)
• Germany
13 May 18
@allknowing no. My hubby doesn't look other women.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
13 May 18
Well as long as it's just a harmless stare, I don't mind.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
So let it be
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
13 May 18
@allknowing I guess it's something you can't really stop
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
12 May 18
No matter what it is men is always men..I think there is nothing wrong in it lol.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
As long it is just looking, all is fine (lol)
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
13 May 18
@Peach10 (1920)
12 May 18
Men will be men! you just have to accept that. Good he's not.looking at other men
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
12 May 18
There you have a genuine point @Peach10! I appreciate that!
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
I never thought of that
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
12 May 18
• United States
12 May 18
I think the only way to make him stop is to let him know how uncomfortable it makes you feel. If he's sympathetic, he'll change if not he won't. You can always ask him, how would he feel if you were the one looking at other men. It might make him stop and think, but than again, who knows. It really depends on his character.
@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
I think it is men in general who do that and it is not proper that women tell them to stop it but see that they are loved all the same.
@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
@ThinkGratitude You should read how @LadyDuck handled it
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• United States
13 May 18
@allknowing If he is with you and looking at other women, that is improper as well. I would be rethinking if he was the one for me. It also devalues women and continues the double standards that we set. If we don't let them know it bothers us, we are teaching them that it is okay to treat us that way.
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• Pamplona, Spain
13 May 18
Men will always be the same. Mine does it too and I only laugh and have to admit that they are beautiful women and work of art in the making but then so am I well says me anyway.
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• Pamplona, Spain
13 May 18
@allknowing Oh yes and I look at other men sometimes if they are out of the ordinary handsome and why not? That is as far as it goes for me as well.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
14 May 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 Yes "That is as far as it goes" and then full stop
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
As long as it stops at that is fine (lol)
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
12 May 18
That is just unfair to even suggest to ask men to stop looking. Women look at men as well. As long as there is just looking (not staring/leering) then I don't even see an issue here.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
Here looking has a different connotation (lol)
@YrNemo (20255)
12 May 18
I am more obvious in this department re: admiring someone's long legs or a beautiful chest .
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
You are right. Women are no less It's work of art after all men or women.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
@YrNemo Since you used the word 'chest' I thought you were talking about men.
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@YrNemo (20255)
12 May 18
@allknowing For some reason, I am not too keen at admiring men with muscles etc. They are just men to me. But women, some are so gorgeous to look at. THEY are real work of art (just like kittens, puppies etc) .
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12 May 18
It does matter how he looks at other women than her woman. A common saying women seek quality, men seek quantity. Restriction needs to applied. Your hubby should believe that you are the best work of art for him.
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
13 May 18
A woman I used to date always got jealous when I looked at other women. I enjoyed teasing her that way, but it only pissed her off until one day, she threatened to do a Lorena Bobbit on me. That scared the pants off me...
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
14 May 18
For her to threaten you with the Lorena Bobbit you must have gone father than just a look
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
15 May 18
@Bullshark Just because you are a guy does not mean you should keep looking at women unless you think they are a work of art
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
14 May 18
@allknowing Heey I just look at women, that's all. I'm a guy...
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
12 May 18
Hehehe!!! Nothing wrong with looking as long as you're the one in his life..
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
That is for you to ensure (lol)
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
13 May 18
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