How to stop your partner from looking at other women?
@allknowing (136099)
India
39 responses
@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
12 May 18
I do not care if my husband looks at other women if we are not together, I would not tolerate if he would turn his hear while we are together. This is something he only did once, I think he still remembers how mad I was. I am very quiet and sweet, but the few times I get mad, I REALLY GET MAD.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
There are looks and looks and those particular looks will turn any wife mad. Good you reacted
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 May 18
My husband is not the type of looking at women or staring at them. He makes me feel secure always.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
12 May 18
You just don't catch him glancing from time to time, not staring, that is different
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 May 18
@allknowing No but even if he does look at them, it is fine hehehe
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
12 May 18
@allknowing , otherwise I would be debarred from the Clan of men!
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
@AKRao24 I appreciate your honesty. Hope your wife is not here
@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
So without saying it you have admitted that you too do what other men do
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
13 May 18
@allknowing Hahah as long as its just looking - no touching!!
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
@infatuatedbby I am sure he will take your permission before doing that
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@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
12 May 18
2 ways: 1) Always have a knife in your handbag (your man must know about it).
2) have a stunning body, better than any of females in your city.
I have chosen the 2nd variant, my husband never looks at other women because he knows that my figure is better. All is in your hands
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@rakski (122360)
• Philippines
12 May 18
@MashaVickina
Good options. Before having kids, my option is 2.
Now, i will choose option 1.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
12 May 18
I do not think there is a solution and there is no need trying to solve it. Looking at a woman does not equal to not loving our wife or wanting to trade or exchange them for another " if eyes were made for seeing then beauty is it's own excuse for being"... Ralph Waldo Emerson
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
Neither would want the other to do that though (lol)
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@Shiva49 (26669)
• Singapore
13 May 18
@allknowing Agreed, but it is a reflex action and that means we are alive with some hope still left in us!
For a man I know "'It ain't over till the fat lady sings' - siva
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@thelme55 (76957)
• Germany
13 May 18
@allknowing no. My hubby doesn't look other women.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
13 May 18
@allknowing I guess it's something you can't really stop
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
As long it is just looking, all is fine (lol)
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@ThinkGratitude (263)
• United States
12 May 18
I think the only way to make him stop is to let him know how uncomfortable it makes you feel. If he's sympathetic, he'll change if not he won't. You can always ask him, how would he feel if you were the one looking at other men. It might make him stop and think, but than again, who knows. It really depends on his character.
@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
I think it is men in general who do that and it is not proper that women tell them to stop it but see that they are loved all the same.
@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
@ThinkGratitude You should read how @LadyDuck handled it
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@ThinkGratitude (263)
• United States
13 May 18
@allknowing If he is with you and looking at other women, that is improper as well. I would be rethinking if he was the one for me. It also devalues women and continues the double standards that we set. If we don't let them know it bothers us, we are teaching them that it is okay to treat us that way.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
13 May 18
Men will always be the same.
Mine does it too and I only laugh and have to admit that they are beautiful women and work of art in the making but then so am I well says me anyway.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
13 May 18
@allknowing
Oh yes and I look at other men sometimes if they are out of the ordinary handsome and why not?
That is as far as it goes for me as well.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
14 May 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 Yes "That is as far as it goes" and then full stop
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
13 May 18
As long as it stops at that is fine (lol)
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
12 May 18
That is just unfair to even suggest to ask men to stop looking. Women look at men as well. As long as there is just looking (not staring/leering) then I don't even see an issue here.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
You are right. Women are no less It's work of art after all men or women.
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
12 May 18
@YrNemo Since you used the word 'chest' I thought you were talking about men.
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@YrNemo (20255)
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12 May 18
@allknowing For some reason, I am not too keen at admiring men with muscles etc. They are just men to me. But women, some are so gorgeous to look at. THEY are real work of art (just like kittens, puppies etc) .
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@prakashj256 (926)
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12 May 18
It does matter how he looks at other women than her woman. A common saying women seek quality, men seek quantity. Restriction needs to applied. Your hubby should believe that you are the best work of art for him.
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
13 May 18
A woman I used to date always got jealous when I looked at other women. I enjoyed teasing her that way, but it only pissed her off until one day, she threatened to do a Lorena Bobbit on me. That scared the pants off me...
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
14 May 18
For her to threaten you with the Lorena Bobbit you must have gone father than just a look
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@allknowing (136099)
• India
15 May 18
@Bullshark Just because you are a guy does not mean you should keep looking at women unless you think they are a work of art
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
14 May 18
@allknowing Heey I just look at women, that's all. I'm a guy...
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
12 May 18
Hehehe!!! Nothing wrong with looking as long as you're the one in his life..
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