Living with your spouse before marriage

@Mikky88 (156)
Cuneo, Italy
May 22, 2018 12:53pm CST
Is it really proper for a lady to start living with her spouse before they both get married
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
22 May 18
Could / could not all depends on the situation.
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
22 May 18
Like what situation will you advise a lady to do that
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
22 May 18
@Mikky88 She has no family nearby , she got kicked out of her home, she is financial stable and a grown adult, life happens (have a baby prior to marriage) and living with the father / spouse before marriage, etc.
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
22 May 18
@infatuatedbby thanks that was really helpful
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Rubeena Bashir Kunju
@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
23 May 18
No, i don't agree to it. In our culture it is not allowed and i feel that it is right.
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Rubeena Bashir Kunju
@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
23 May 18
@Mikky88 If he insists I would say no,and it is not right to do so. If he breaks the marriage also I won't have any problem,but I would never allow living together before marriage.
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
23 May 18
@rubyriaz007 very good idea
Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
23 May 18
What if the boy insist or no marriage
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Lena Kovadlo
@lovebuglena (44717)
• Staten Island, New York
22 May 18
I think it is a good idea because the couple gets to find out if they can co-exist (well) together under one roof.
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Lena Kovadlo
@lovebuglena (44717)
• Staten Island, New York
24 May 18
@Mikky88 But she can get pregnant even if they don't choose to live together before marriage.
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
23 May 18
What if along the lines she gets pregnant before marriage who knows if the guy is willing to marry her
Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
24 May 18
Thanks
Masha Vickina
@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
23 May 18
Welcome to myLot! I cannot say what is proper for you even if it is proper for me... (please, do not write the titles in capital letters, otherwise, admins may delete your posts, it is against the rules)
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
23 May 18
Thanks
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enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
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25 May 18
This is wrong by all standard. No is the answer
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
25 May 18
Why did you say it's wrong
April fabe
@Peach10 (1920)
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22 May 18
Hello and welcome. Are you at the right age. I mean are you over 18?
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April fabe
@Peach10 (1920)
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26 May 18
@Mikky88 no one can tell you what to do. Your conscience will dictate you. If you want marriage then insist on it but if you want his decision then take the consequences like getting pregnant even when you are not ready for it.
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
23 May 18
Yeah
Djhoanna li
@Friendlypink (3805)
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22 May 18
Well I guess it all depends on your roots like, are they from a conservative family or what culture or practices they have or beliefs in that country etc.
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
22 May 18
People often say it brings disrespect from the man to the lady due to the fact that he is having full access to her before marriage
jaishankar
@Shivram59 (36385)
• India
22 May 18
@Mikky88 No,I don't think it would be proper for a lady to start living with a guy before they get married to each other.
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Frederick Espiritu
@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
23 May 18
As of today, most are doing it.
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Blessedk
@Mikky88 (156)
• Cuneo, Italy
23 May 18
Is it really right