Realization : Growing Up

May 23, 2018 11:31pm CST
I wish people who really loves you, accepts you as a person and gets contented with what you could do for them. Everything was part of the plan. Seldom, you wish it was an evil thought to do something that would really make you happy. Something that you could be proud of. But got no guts to do it, 'coz you don't want to disappoint people whom you loved so much. You can't bear seeing them drowning with disappointment. Why is it so hard to understand, that happiness, success and fulfillment is not something you plan for others, it's their life, and not yours to worry about. You could be part of it, but it is something they need to work on. Happiness is something that is part of one's personal choice, it's part of self fulfillment, it's their journey. The truth is, I've learn things the hard way, I pour my heart out with every challenge I take in, I did it because of love. I wish someday, people realize that we have our own wings. Wings that were develop through time, tested through season. Wings that were meant to fly and soar higher. Wings that plans its own journey. A journey through happiness.
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@arunima25 (87814)
• Bangalore, India
24 May 18
Everyone grows and matures with time. Every wing takes it's own time to spread. You have to go through testing to emerge stronger. Thanks for sharing!!
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
24 May 18
Thanks for sharing this my friend. =)
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
30 May 18
It is amazing how time goes by and we grow up as people. I remember when my disabled son joined Year 5 and it made me feel very old. Now he is in double figures age wise because he is 11 years old. My daughter is 8 years old and she will turn 9 years old next month. As for me I am 45 years old and my sister is 51 years old. I will become 46 years old in July. I bought my little cottage when I was 19 years old and it made me grow up quickly. I didn't learn to drive until I was older and I passed my driving test in 2010.
@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
24 May 18
While growing up, I realized that not all people will like me. Not all people will always be nice to me. Yes, they are nice but if you have your own decision that's not on they want to happen, they're being nice turns to being rude to you.
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22 Jul 19
Yes, happiness is a personal journey, and not about winning the lottery.