Do you think old age homes are essential these days?
@divyamanojkumar (257)
Kochi, India
May 28, 2018 12:00pm CST
There are a number of old age homes.Their number increases every year.But why?
There are daughters and sons saying that thay don't have time to listen and care their parents.We are celebrating mothers day, birthdays etc.What is the meaning in celebrating all these if we are not having our parents besides us.
Do you think home is sweet home without our father and mother?what doyou think?
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
28 May 18
Things are so different from what they used to be, and sons and daughters really do not have time to take care of an aging parent. For instance, one of my daughters lives alone. She works full time, takes care of all her yardwork, gardens and maintains the house (she can even do plumbing). She couldn't stay home from work and take care of me.
My son works long hours, as does his wife. They have two kids they can't spend enough time with, what would they do with me?
All of that said, I think it's a shame that older people aren't respected and cherished for their wisdom. "Retirement homes" are nothing more than glorified hospitals for those can't live alone.
My sister took care of Mom when she had Alzheimer's and I don't want my kids to have to do that, so if something like that happens, I want to go to a home.
There's a lot to think about.
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@divyamanojkumar (257)
• Kochi, India
29 May 18
Thanks for sharing...dear friend.there are merits and demerits as well.those children who have all facilities to take care their parents are not doing so saying they lack time.it is totally miscerable
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@CuriousCat (88)
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29 May 18
I can not do that.For me parents are the people who gives strength and moral support to the family. Today's sons and daughters are forgetting that they are also going to become older and they will having the same fate as they are providing to their parents as children learn from parents and they think that it is a proper thing and they would practice the same thing.
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@divyamanojkumar (257)
• Kochi, India
29 May 18
Exactly...everybody should think like that.
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@CuriousCat (88)
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29 May 18
@divyamanojkumar , Yes, Very soon people will realize that.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
28 May 18
In my opinion, home care or nursing home are very helpful but I rather take care my parents at home or rather hired someone to look after them when I am working than placing them in a nursing home. I can not imagine my parent living in that place. They build our house, they gave us home and comfortable life when they get old well the same.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
28 May 18
I think for many people they are very very important. Though many do not take care of the elderly all that great, many are amazing and help elders live happily.
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@divyamanojkumar (257)
• Kochi, India
28 May 18
I do agree.but what about those who have all facilities to look after their parents?
@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
29 May 18
@divyamanojkumar It is their choice. Some people just don't have the time.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
29 May 18
@divyamanojkumar
When children cannot take care of their parents then there has to a place that is good for them to live and get the right care they need.
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@divyamanojkumar (257)
• Kochi, India
29 May 18
It is right.but what about those who have all things with them still not ready to attend what their parents want.
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@divyamanojkumar (257)
• Kochi, India
29 May 18
This world will be blessed if all daughters and sons think so.
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
29 May 18
I do think that with the population around the world getting older and older, there is still a need for homes for the elderly.
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