How did/do you improve yourself?

Sweetie, I think you are being too hard on yourself. Actually, in person, I am not as sociable as I may seem on here but I do like to chat when I feel comfortable enough with the right people. It also depends on how comfortable the other persons allows you to simply be yourself. Sometimes I also struggle to open a conversation, an extrovert may get bored with my small talk too, I also keep a lot of things to myself and aren't as expressive as others, sometimes I play it safe too and there are so many people out there young people and some that are already on their 50's who don't know exactly what they want but it is completely fair and normal. It doesn't make you less worthy than others simply because you yet haven't figured out if you want to be a doctor, lawyer, artist or whatever it is other people expect you to be. Most the time people expect so much from you that you probably just feel stuck and don't allow you to think clearly and be yourself to determine and understand that you are unique and that in time you'll begin to find more sense in life that it will definitely help you understand yourself. You are worthy, you are unique and you'll find that spark you're looking for one day. The awesome thing about all this is that you want to be better but don't be better for others sake, be better for yourself! Cheer on!!!

Changes will only be temporarily unless you internalise the changes you want so that you can make the positive changes permanent.

A few years ago I went to The Money Course and I learned how to have a budget. I think it improved my finances and it is lovely to look back at my old worksheets. These days I improve myself by reading books. I decided to do a Business and Finance (Shipping and Transport) B Tec National Diploma, A Levels English Literature plus Travel and Tourism. I did degree in Education and English Literature.

The fact that you know what your issues are , you know deep inside what to do and how to get out of your comfort zone .. taking a risk can be beneficial sometimes ..

I am improving myself by learning from different things, trying new things and hard working to become a better person.

It is too hard to change oneself in a short time, but please don't worry, know yourself and be yourself now!

Chicnthin, the good news is that you are not worthless. Nobody is.

Try to read a self-improvement book. Like from Tony Robbins.

Start with a single step and build from there.

@chicnthin I work very hard on trying to be a better person but do not always succeed.

Learning never ends and there is always chances to learn and improve. It is on us how and when and what we want to take in

I changed my mindset and set goals for myself because I want to make my life comfortable and happy.