I Got TRUST Issues!!!!!

Winston Salem, North Carolina
June 6, 2018 1:44am CST
Growing up, I always stayed off to myself and studied my books as my parents wanted me to do to stay focus. As I got older and went to high school and college I had a girlfriend that I trust dearly until she stabbed me in the back and then as my years went by and I went to college and graduated I met husband number 1 and knew he was the one that I could trust from being my best friend to my lover to my everything until four years later that he used me and played on my intelligence and cheated on me with multiple women, The main tow people that I trusted in my life stabbed me in my back so now my body is NUMB and I HAVE SERIOUS TRUST ISSUES AND MOST DEFINITELY CAN'T TRUST NO ONE; NOT EVEN MYSELF, BECAUSE I WILL TELL YOU THAT I WILL DO ONE THING AND END UP DOING SOMETHING ELSE! "I Give Up!" What do you think; do you have trust issues or is your circle of friends tight??????????
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Jun 18
Many people I trust had stabbed and betrayed me that I do not really care about them. I still talk to them but it is not like the way it used to be. We do not know who to trust these days.
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
6 Jun 18
Good Day: Louise: You are so right and that's what make a person confuse and hurt even most when you still be cordial and speak to them after they know that they betrayed you, because they don't know what to do or think then; but like you said you just know that you can't trust them no father than you can throw them. Have a good day!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
7 Jun 18
@MsExquisite Thank you. I just really do not talk to them cause it is a waste of time.
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
9 Jun 18
@mlgen1037 Exactly! Have an exquisite weekend!
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
6 Jun 18
Trust is really hard to rebuild once it's broken.
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
6 Jun 18
Good day: Chicnthin: You said a mouth full and I agree with you 100%, because once that trust is broken it's no return; that's a wrap call it saran. Happy MyLotting!
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@dya80dya (36578)
7 Jun 18
You are right. There are people who get upset when you tell them you lost your trust in them. Even if there are many reasons to not trust them.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
6 Jun 18
@MsExquisite halppy mylotting, hope you are doing fine.
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@bela360 (2006)
• Saint Lucia
9 Jun 18
I have trust issue like you.
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
10 Jun 18
Hello, Rebelta: It's ashamed that you have to be like that, but people are so untrustworthy!
@dya80dya (36578)
7 Jun 18
I have the same problem.
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
7 Jun 18
Good day, Dya80: It's ashame that you have to have this problem, because you don't trust people, because people try to prey on the weak too much and take full advantage of them.
@Samrani (164)
7 Jun 18
I trust quickly everyone but I put limits in my trust so that if someone break the trust I don't regret but then there is nothing in my life to hide but people's want me to hide things because it's related to them
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@Samrani (164)
7 Jun 18
@MsExquisite I understand hope all mylot users have good luck with trusting
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
7 Jun 18
Hello, Sameera: I agree with you; you have to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove you otherwise. And that's the thing about it; I love too easy and will give you the shirt off of my back and my last dollar, because I am big on Loyalty, but a lot of people take advantage of it.
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7 Jun 18
Wow it really sucks having trust issues. We give so much and people will take advantage of that. We lose ourselves in them and we forget what it is we're even fighting for. How quick things change..We give decades to people who won't give us a second, we give galaxies to people who won't give us a star. Humans have every capability to be cruel. We tear ourselves down for those that will build themselves up using the same bricks that once belonged to us. And it's a cycle that doesn't end because that is life. I would love to say I don't trust anyone. But the truth is, I trust too easily. The only thing is even if that trust is broken I'm able to forgive them, and myself and am able to move on quickly. For me, there is nothing to rebuild.
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
7 Jun 18
Hello, Kilig: What a well said explanation on trust, because you hit a lot of major key points! Trust is something that someone has to earn like respect! Thanks for sharing! Happy MyLotting!
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
6 Jun 18
I trust no one but myself. That's the best thing one should do.
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
6 Jun 18
Hello, Honey143: I totally agree with you 100%, because if you put all of your trust in a person and open up to them that's the main one in most cases that will stab you in the back. I am getting tired of the stab wounds; it hurts like a knife.
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@Peach10 (1920)
6 Jun 18
Sorry for your hurt.You have been through a lot and I don't blame you for not trusting I don't have trust issues coz I trust only God and humans will always fail even us
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
6 Jun 18
Hello, April: I agree with you from the moon and back, because I tell people all the time as long as I walk with God that's the only friend that I need the rest of them can continue to find their next victim to see who they can destroy next. I call them "Little Devils"!
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