What is your biggest fear?

In either way you will be at a disadvantage

That is one that has me thinking now because you can look at that in quite a few ways!

@violetrainx I see. It can be a long time depression.

A lot of people have that fear that I know. If theu weren't dependant would that fear be non existent?

@violetrainx If I know they can make it without me, then all is good.

That would be such a scary thought. Don't think we realise how lucky we are.

@violetrainx Honestly, I probably wouldn't mind surgery that much if I could stay awake during the whole thing, and if they numbed the specific area they would be working on, loaded me up on Xanax, and then allowed me to ask as many stupid questions as I wanted to. (Yeah, doctors LOVE me.) I'm that annoying patient that does all the reading beforehand and then starts questioning everything.

I believe I've only ever been under anaesthesia once and that was to get some baby teeth out. The feeling after you come out of it is quite strange you do feel very groggy afterwards. Hope you don't have to go through that. Some people have even been awake during it in which they cannot move or speak but only feel what is happening to them. That is a very scary thought!

@violetrainx Yes, same like yours.

Very similar to me!

I used to be terrified of water when I was a child. It can be quite scary even as an adult especially the ocean.